Eulogy for Grandmother
The phone call came at 6:45 on the evening of the 16th. At 8:58 I sent out an e-mail message to friends about my Grandmother's death. Many of those friends are former and current church members of congregations I have served as pastor. By the next morning I was receiving e-mail messages back. The ones from former and current church members had a common theme. In addition to expressing their sympathy they all said that they felt they had known my grandmother: "We remember your grandmother from the stories you would tell us of her."
That is the nature of memories. They can be collective, shared, or private. They may be special moments - remembrances of her as a sister, a wife, a mother, or a friend. But, when we share those memories they become a part of someone else. The memories become the possession of others. When the Bible tells us to be kind to foreigners in our midst because we were once slaves in Egypt it assumes we have made that memory our own. We were once slaves in Egypt. The sacred memory has been passed down to us. Today, I want to share just a few memories of my Grandmother.
She was a determined woman. Yes, she was a woman who could be patient, but that was restricted by the limits of her determination. When I was small she decided it was time to clean the attic. She had asked my Grandfather to place the wagon underneath the attic window so she could drop the stuff she wanted to be rid of. Well, my Grandfather was busy with other things. One day she decided she had waited long enough. She went to the attic and opened up the window and began to hurl items from the window. Imagine my surprise to items raining from the sky. Imagine my Grandfather's surprise upon his return.
Then there was the time she was after my Grandfather to clean out the chimney. My Grandfather was up working in the fields when a chimney fire broke out. I was still a baby and my mother picked me up and went running next door to Aunt Mid's house. My Grandmother called the fire department (instead of calling for my Grandfather). My grandfather saw the fire trucks coming up the road from town - followed by cars of just about everybody who lived along the way! My Grandfather saw to it that the chimney stayed clean after that.
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I would like to thank you all for coming to Arlyn's funeral. I am truly touched that you care enough to show your support for us and your respect for Arlyn this way.
She served on the school board for 7 years. I come from a loving and caring family but no one notices that pain changes people. It's not easy you have to go thru the pain every day and cry every night, you try to be strong but every little thing you just brings all the memories and pain back.. From the teaching I have been taught we are never allowed to cry past 3 o’clock and every time you cry you go up to the mountains and wash all the pain away. After you lose someone close you take all the pictures down and put them all away for one whole year because if you don’t you will lose another close one. I never believed in it but I have seen it happen. My elders always told us if you don’t follow our teaching the stick indians will come after you and bother you until you fix your problems. Once stuff start falling in your house those elders won’t leave until you either get brushed off or get your house cleaned out. Death is the worst thing a community can go thru, Swin just recently lost a loved one she helped in any way she could it was not easy seeing everyone shed their tears but we always know they will always be watching over us and protecting us in any way they can. My uncle Tedo always says after losing a loved one your family will be blessed with a newborn and I’ve seen it happen because it has happened with both sides of my family many times it recently happened with my Auntie Holly after she lost her brother she ended up finding out she was pregnant 2 months later and my cousin Sammie after she lost her mom 3 months later she found out she was going to have a baby also. It also happened with my sister Siomi, after we lost our papa Todd 9 months after his death I was blessed with my handsome nephew named Greyson Anthony
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Good afternoon, let me just start by saying that the kindness, support, friendship, and love extended to me and my family during this difficult time has really touched my heart- we are sincerely appreciative!
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Spirit : My Grandma, Mildred Johnson, is a true woman of faith. For as far back as I can remember, my Grandma has been a conveyor of the word of God in developing her family and living her daily life. Never would she miss a Sunday to share the word and love of God. As time moves forward not all of God’s children remain strong enough as before to lead his flock. Nor can all of God’s choir continue to sing quite as loudly as they always have. This is the time when the Lord takes them into his hands to rest their souls as he has now done with Mildred. Make no mistake, however, as the legacy of spirit that she has created in all of us will continue to live on.
Before I begin I would like to thank all of you here on behalf of my mother, my brother and myself, for your efforts large and small to be here today, to help us mark my fathers passing.
The Daily Telegraph, March 12th 2010. Death penalty officially abolished in Australia. Available at: http://www.tutorgig.com/ed/Capital_punishment_in_Australia. [Accessed 9th July 2011]