Essay On Dating Abuse

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Definition of Abuse:

Abuse means to use something in the wrong way. Specifically speaking in terms of abuse towards a person it is a form of intimidation and manipulation in which the one person tries to misuse power with harmful intentions. Abuse is a form of controlling another person, it can vary from disrespecting a person in a way that it greatly affects their lives. There are different types of abuse such as physical, mental, verbal, emotional or sexual abuse. Although there are different types it is important to remember that all these types of abuse violate a person’s civil rights. …show more content…

Nowadays us as a society are glued to our cellular phones. In our minds we are using our phones as well as social media apps for harmless interaction but studies have shown that social media and our phones are contributing factors to dating violence. Dating violence includes groups of all ages who have a intimate relationship.

Teens: Teenagers are constantly interacting through social media. This leads to dating violence as there are numerous ways to keep in contact and know what your partner is up to 24/7. Eg. Teens use messages and phone calls to intimidate and harass their partners. There was a story about a young girl who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend gave her number to his friends so they can keep him updated about her whereabouts. This is dangerous and can lead to serious issues in the relationship resulting in abuse because of her boyfriend’s jealousy.

Once posted it can never be taken back! Social media appears to be fantastic because no one realizes the consequences of using it. Once you have posted something whether it be a picture, quote or a general statement any person can easily take a screenshot of this. This could lead to blackmail, verbal or even physical abuse. Eg. If a girl posts a picture that’s a bit inappropriate and someone shows her boyfriend and he’s very possessive. He will most likely get upset and act out …show more content…

They will make you believe if you try harder in the relationship they will treat you better but this is not the case. They will never change.

The cycle of abuse:

Ways to escape an abusive relationship:

 Talk to someone- Abusers tend to try isolate their victims. Do not let this affect you. Talk to your family and friends (they are there to help) Try and get advice on what to do!
 Set aside some money or personal belongings- If you decide to leave in a hurry make sure you have kept some money in some safe place and clothes, medication etc.
 Leave when your partner is not home- If you are going to leave time it so your partner isn’t home. You can call them and explain why you left. If they want to meet in private do not go!
 Talk through a mediator- Abusers make their partners feel safe and try and manipulate them when they speak to the victim. YOU DO NOT have to talk to him/her one on one if you know you will fall for his/her tricks.
 Move on- Abuse can leave not only physical but emotional scars that are difficult to heal. If you have recently come out of an abusive relationship, SEEK HELP! Talk to a psychologist, do not be afraid to admit what has happened in your

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