The thought of marriage usually gives people the image of celebration and joy. But not to sixteen-year-old Sadia current resident of a small village in Bangladesh. Sadia forced to quit school at age 14 because her parents were having her married to an older man. Based off of tradition in her family this is similar to what her grandmother had to do. She was forced to get married to this man and have sex. At only 14 years old, Sadia got pregnant and had a baby (Plan International). Now picture thousands of girls and boys going through this every day. “Each year 15 million girls are married before the age of 18”(Girls Not Brides). A global women's issues which is still happening today is child marriage. Child marriage, defined as an informal marriage …show more content…
In 1948, the universal declaration of human rights declared, “the right to free and full consent to a marriage” and it “cannot be ‘free and full’ for when at least one partner is very immature” (Unicef 10). Child brides are violation of human rights given to each and every human being. Usually communities leaders or religious leaders will not follow these laws. Families follow other families and it is a continuing pattern. Marriage is a choice and these underage girls are getting their rights taken …show more content…
Girls Not Brides is a global partnership combined of more than 800 civil society organizations from over 95 countries with a goal of ending child marriage and enabling girls to their full potential. Part of the mission statement of Girls Not Brides is raising awareness of the harm of child marriages by encouraging open and forum discussions. On the Girls Not Brides website, they have a “take action” tab where you can donate to members products such as a “radio program raising awareness a child marriage in South Kivu”. Girls Not Brides partners with crowdfunding websites to connect individual donors with girls. Girls not brides also has informative fact sheets and statistics I tell you everything about a child brides. they also have a tab where you can support their members campaign such as in the Niger (the main country where this is happening) to outlaw forced child
Some of these marriages are extremely dysfunctional while others seem to be practical. These marriages are considered different from forced marriages and are an acceptable type of marriage in Afghan society. Some arranged marriages lead to poor or horrific outcomes for the brides in order to separate from her spouse. Occasionally these marriages shift into being forced marriages. In the article “Afghan girls bound by family betrothals” the author states “In Kapisa province, just north of Kabul, an 18-year-old girl shot and killed herself because her family would not break off her three-year-engagement to a drug addict.” This exhibits how certain family’s decisions for their children are atrocious. In addition it shows how an arranged marriage turned into a forced marriage. At times young women may run away from as a threat tactic to their family reported by the article “Afghan girls bound by family betrothals.” A 17-year-old girl who ran away from her home for a few days resulted in her parents letting her marry the man that she loved rather than who they set her up with. This shows how some parents would be tolerant enough to let his own daughter marry the person she
The themes in the story “The Wedding Gift” are freedom, the right to choose, women power and much more. All of these themes fall into one category, which is one of the major theme in this text, “self realization”. When Kezia is told to marry an old, rich man, by the Barley’s for their own business benefit. Kezia expresses her feelings by telling Mr. Mears “My body doesn’t belong to anyone, expect for me”. This story showcases, how women were portrayed back then and even right now in some countries such as China, Afghanistan, India etc. I recently read an article, where a young girl named Priya Khan, committed a suicide in India due to a forced marriage to an old man enough to be her grandfather. Since, her family was not able to provide for her. Towards, the
The bravery Nujood demonstrated opened the doors for many other child brides. The issue of underage marriage had never gained as much exposure as it had after Nujood was publicly recognized as the youngest divorcee in the world. Yemen Times, along with other journalist wanted to share Nujood’s story. As uncomfortable as it was for Nujood to replay her occurrences for the journalist, she did it for a greater purpose. To help others in a situation like
An example she presented in the article was a case of 16 years old girl that was married to her uncle at the age of 9, and pregnant at 12 in which she developed obstetric fistula after the death of her baby, she was recovering her 4th fistula surgery. This not even close to covering the horrors of childhood marriage in which many young girls are suffering around the global. She concludes that Fistula is 100% preventable, but because many of the young girls undergoing this, is in areas where there is no access to health care and resource, they are badly suffering this and even resulting in death. An important message she addresses is that child bride is preventable as this fistula is if it is taken into consideration in our
The impacts socially of the gendercide include women being married younger and younger due to the lack of suitable age females. This young marriage and the pressures on the young girls to provide families causes them to miscarriages and create harm to their underdeveloped bodies. In addition to younger marriages, high rates of prostitution become a problem. Most girls will be stolen and sold into sex trafficking. The lack of females causes male tensions to be high with no female perspective to calm down all the male testosterone in the environment. With no females to marry and love, they turn to illegal practices to satisfy their desires. The marriage of such young females also hurts their opportunity to grow and develop as women in society. They lose their chance for education, and they settle down to simply raise children. This also
Imagine seeing a girl no older than eight years old, being forced into marriage to a man twice her age. For many girls around the world, being forced into marriage to much older men is an everyday occurrence in their lives. The word “arranged” is not usually associated with the word “forced” but in cases like these the girls have no choice but to agree to marry. Arranged marriages are deeply embedded into the cultures of some countries, with girls being promised into marriage when they are as young as a month old and marrying before they reach maturity. About a third of the women married in developing countries are married before they are eighteen years of age.
Some of the main challenges being cost of education, school environment, position of women in their societies as to how they are treated, conflicts and social exclusion. One of the main reasons why parents discriminate against the girl child when it comes to education is the cost when compared to economic returns to the household after the completion of education and also the expenditure of marrying off a daughter is enormous in many societies. It has also been documented that girls in most developing countries start helping in household chores from an early age and being highly educated causes constraints regarding marriage as many grooms don’t prefer a literate wife. Studies have shown that girls are the first to discontinue schooling to provide care to a sick member in the family or take care of younger siblings in case of death of a parent, and this is one of the main reasons why in Sub-Saharan countries there are many child headed families. Social exclusion is another barrier that prevents girls from going to school as they are excluded based on caste, ethnicity and religion (DIFD Report,
The practice of female infanticide shows how desirable having a male child is that parents would take the lives of a female baby. The dowry system in India is the main cause of female infanticide in India. Gender inequalities in the rural part of northern India exhibit female infanticide occurs here the most despite laws to abolish these acts. Men hold a higher value in this society because a system they adapted many years ago. Men are seen as an asset or of value because at one point his future wife and her family will “pay” for him. Daughters are opposite and viewed as a burden to the family because she will have to marry one day and that will cost her parents. So women are not viewed equally here even as infants, they don’t even stand a chance. Officials have tried to make laws to assist in reducing female infanticide but people have continued to follow traditions of the dowry systems putting the population at risk as well
While reading this novel, individuals can fully imagine the struggles these child brides or arranged marriages in general go through. One can only experience what it feels like to belong to someone when they themselves do not have any idea who they are or can become. They are destined to obey and serve their husbands and honor their family tradition, and if they, like Nujood, choose to rebel against the norm of their reality, they will be looked down upon and punished for their disobedience and lack of
Azaadi is a non-profit organization that provides girls empowerment workshops that serve as informal learning environments to discuss a variety of topics. Keeping cultural and religious practices in mind our informational sessions include reproductive health, mental well-being, setting boundaries, self-defense and empowerment. Girls around the world are facing major disparities when it comes to educational success due to gender inequality. We hope that with Azaadi we will be able to address issues on reproductive health, feminine hygiene, child marriage, sexual/physical abuse and encouragement for women and girls independence. Furthermore, Azaadi is promoting cosmopolitanism and developing a global citizenry to contribute to the enrichment
Girls all over the world are forced into marriages due to financial necessity, tradition and to ensure their future. Most of these girls married are at a young age: “One third of the world’s girls are married before the age of 18 and 1 in 9 are married before the age of 15”( “Child Marriage Facts and Figures”). The young ages of those being married reveal how crucial it is to resolve this problem. When child marriage occurs the parents of the bride usually chose the groom for their daughters; and these grooms can be three times older than the young brides. Some children are brought into the world of marriage at the of 8 or sometimes less depending on their cultural views. The following can be used to help reduce the impact of early marriage: reinforcing laws that are passed against child marriages, and providing information on contraceptives to victims of early marriage. The most efficient way of resolving the problem of child marriage is through educating the people who practice it about its adverse effects.
Child marriage is a global issue, transpiring in all parts of the world. Abducted from their home and family, young girls - below eighteen - are married off against their own will not only affecting the girls (mentally and physically) but the country as a whole. The organization, Too Young to Wed, says “… marrying them off at such a young age, they are putting the girls at risk and perpetuation the cycle of powerlessness and poverty.” Child marriages occurred throughout history and still an affair today due to society’s tolerance. And the number of young girls forced to wed increased and will continue to increase if society remains tolerant to this sensitive matter.
Because of child marriage many kids lose the opportunity to continue with school. When kids don’t go to school they lose out on many employment opportunities to help the household financially. When children miss out on employment opportunities it keeps the cycle of poverty going. Parents should not be marrying off their children so young just because they cant provide for them, there is other options instead of throwing out your daughter. Every child is valuable and deserves to live a childs life and have fun and just worry about being a kid instead of having a grow up while still yet a child. Each child should enjoy their child years, it only happens once and then real life hits, no child should be deprived of a childhood. Parents should step up and take responsibility for the life that they brought into the world. These countries that waddle in child marriage are some of the poorest because the cycle of poverty starts all over again as these two people joined together have to figure out to make finances work when they couldn’t even finish school to get a good job. Parents should let their children be children, their lives should be more valuable than any money they can get for marrying off their
This practice proves to be dangerous not only to the woman herself but also to the rest of us around her. The impact this practice has on the society is dangerous not only to the women but to everyone in it. Demographers have warned that in the future in twenty years the nation will have to face a shortage of girls as brides as the sex ratio is quickly becoming unfavorable. This practice is also causing an increase in crimes and violence towards women. Women are more likely to be exploited, molested and also raped as an obvious result. Awareness on this situation should be made and people who want to determine the sex of their child should be punished severely. Laws have been passed in the Indian Penal Code to punish any person who tries to determine the sex of the child. The society needs to understand that it needs the girl child as much as it needs the boy child. There was no past without the female and there will be no future without the girl
Child marriage is a popular practice in India and Middle Eastern countries. It is defined as “a formal union before the age of eighteen” (unicef). In some cases the husband can be more than twice the age of the young girl. The median age of women at the time of their marriage is starting to increase, although this primarily includes women in higher income families. Seen as taboo in western countries, the practice is common in rural towns in places like India and Yemen. As a result of the marriage many young girls get pregnant, which is a serious health risk due to their underdeveloped bodies. The practice of child marriage takes away a young woman’s right to an education and also poses serious health risks.