Essay On Abusive Relationships

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Abusive Relationships

Ending an abusive and long term relationship may seem a bit challenging to some people; especially when THAT person doesn’t know when to stop or take a “NO” as an answer. Being in a relationship requires from both sides to be patient, comprehensive, caring, communicative, loving, respectful, and loyal. Imagine having it all with your significant other, all those special components that build a strong relationship and having to end it because of the bad treatments. How do you know when you’ve had enough? How can it stop? Many of us may think abuse is a normal behavior and that its something that will change, but the abuse just gets worse every-time.Its so easy to point fingers and judge someone and say “I told you so!” …show more content…

Which I was WRONG! Everything with excess harms. Words like “Will there be any boys there? as well as “Send me pictures to see if you’re really with your family” were all signs of his jealousy. Just something so simple like going out with my sister to the movies or the mall, made him mad. The fact we attended different schools made me think it was normal because he wasn't able to see what I was doing, but even then I felt as though he was looking, or that he had a camera stuck to my backpack that would follow me everywhere I would go. It started with a simple stare, eye contact with someone. Literally he was my shadow following me everywhere I went. Somehow he would find out I crossed a word with a guy that day. Even if it was just a simple “hi” and “bye”. Now, I ask myself, why didn’t I end it before? Why did I let it go this far? Why was I so blinded by the “love” I felt for him, to stay? It was a daily battle between us two because of him constantly asking about who I spoke with at school. Of course because of his aggressive responses, I felt as though I was obligated to

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