The Pros And Cons Of Emotional Abuse

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Emotional abuse is a type of abuse that can be experienced through an abusive relationship. Emotional abuse comes in many forms, which is something we tend not to notice at first. The most known abuse is physical and sexual, but we are less aware of emotional abuse and what its signs can be. Some tend to be aware of the word “emotional abuse” but don’t really know what emotional abuse is. Emotional abuse is normally rare conversation in today society because people don’t think it exist or just don’t want to talk about it. Statistics proved approximately eight percent of Canadians experience depression (Mood Disorders Society of Canada, 2009). If you ask me, eight percent is quite much this abuse is prone to cause mental illness.
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At any time does anyone deserve to be abused in no way, form, or structure. In the society, we live in we need to invest in a National awareness of the fact that emotional abuse shouldn’t be out looked and create a society of the victims that have been affected so the people that are getting abused can be free to be a part of. The abuser that’s knows or don’t know that they are the emotional abuser should seek help at an appropriate service, also families can be a great help as well just to pay attention to their daughter, son, or etc. and become more involved in their life and make sure they are secure. In the USA, we should know that an abusive relationship may start as the perfect romance being all lovey-dovey then begins to move fast. The abuser may seem “protective” wanting you to be safe at all times and only there when they arrive. Erik Erikson’s developmental theory intended that there were seven stages that an individual face in life. In emotional abuse, Erikson’s theory lines up because the first stage is trust vs mistrust, follows with stage two autonomy vs shame and doubt, then stage three initiative vs guilt, stage four industry vs inferiority, stage five identity vs role confusion, stage six intimacy vs isolation, and lastly stage seven ego integrity vs despair. (Erikson,

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