Prompt #1
Describe the world you come from — for example, your family, community or school — and tell us how your world has shaped your dreams and aspirations.
Life growing up though complicated, was full of great things. I've encountered situations have changed my life for the better and worse. I've had circumstances that have changed the way I view the world and the way I live. Growing up for me was never easy. Especially when I had to assume an important role and responsibilities at a young age. I was partly raised by my older sister, who growing up was my greatest role model. We are two years apart and she's like my twin and best friend. My parents would work most of the time because they're immigrants and finding work was really tough
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at times. No work, no money, and because of that sometimes we couldn't pay our monthly bills. I remember having to line up at the long lines of the food banks. When we didn't have food we ate from canned foods. Sometimes we even stayed without water or electricity. Though my life has been full of obstacles, it's moments like these that have allowed me to see how great life is. Yea it's been hard, but I've always had a roof over my head and the most important people people next to me. Growing up I remember I didn't have the best clothes or shoes. Most of them were hand me downs from cousins and family friends. I didn't always have new supplies for school and at times I didn't even have any.
I remember that I would get bullied and picked on because all the kids had everything new except for me and that made me feel inferior to them. Now that I'm older I thank them because they were the ones that motivated me to want something bigger out of life. I thank all the ghetto neighborhoods that I had to live in because they made me not settle for less. And I thank my mother for always have in my back and believing in me. The way that I see it, my education is my only way out. Another thing that really changed and impacted my life was the separation of my parents. I had to step up my game. I went from being the daughter to the mother, the father, the guardian of my siblings and because my older sister was away to college I had to deal with that burden alone. I struggled with depression to insomnia, anxiety attacks and crying every night. Though the situation was hard and up to this point I’m still pulling through. The whole situation worked as a way to draw me closer to God. Which had always been the foundation of our family and my life. Praying, meditating, and reading the scripture really changed the way to approach every situation. It calmed my soul and reminded me that I'm not alone. That there is someone
greater looking over me and has control of everything. The things that I've had to confront throughout my life have been lessons and there’s a reason for everything. They have built me into the brave, courageous and loving person that I am today. Thanks to the value and morals that my family has instilled in me. I'm more ambitious and hungry for the future and my success. I know that I have a great future waiting for me and with the help of God I'll accomplish it. Prompt #2 Tell us about a personal quality, talent, accomplishment, contribution or experience that is important to you. What about this quality or accomplishment makes you proud and how does it relate to the person you are?_ Growing up my life was always full of color. The streets close to home, everywhere I’d walk there was always a new character with a different face or story. A new color or texture to explore. Many different styles of writing on the wall that were made by professionals or hoodlums. I remember the day that my passion for art had unleashed my eyes to see and find a new talent within myself. Something that I never expected even though I was always drawn to it. It all started during my 8th grade year of middle school. We had something called “intercession” and it was the opportunity for students to sign up for a different class to take for two weeks. I only happened to choose art because all my friends wanted to take it and I wanted to be with them, but it wasn't because I was actually interested in it. Especially because at that time I found art to be pointless and overrated. But then I started to learn the history behind every art piece and the artists that had created it and the time period that it was created. I had encounters with street art, sculptures, and art that had been created centuries before I was born. All that had different stories and hidden messages. All that expressed similar but different emotions. Then I began to see that the simplest display held the most amazing meaning and symbolism if you just looked at the signs. According to Leonardo da Vinci, “simplicity is the ultimate sophistication,” and I couldn't agree more. I was eager to learn more. I was able to explore many different artists and their styles, from Michelangelo and Frida Kahlo up to Banksy. All great artists that have marked history and have impacted my life in a unique way. Their stories and accomplishments have led me towards mine. Art has lead me to grow into a more sensible person. To feel and see through a pair of new eyes and to see that it’s ok to feel something towards people and things. Shakespeare once said, “the world has music for those who listen,” and I hear the music, I see it, I feel it. Music that my own hands translate and paint on a piece of wood. For me that is one of my biggest accomplishments. I was never the most open person ever, when it came to expressing what I thought or felt. It was really tough for me. But with my art I’m able to express the truths that I see and the emotions that I can't express. Now when I feel a certain way I go straight to painting. I pick up that paintbrush and let the emotions flow. When I feel anger and enraged I paint in red. The anger that I feel inside I take it out on the wooden piece. When I feel tired and melancholy I paint in blue and my tears help wet the brush that I use to stroke the wood. When I feel overwhelmed of happiness I paint with different colors, all bright, because everything seems brighter when I’m happy. When I feel that i’m battling my inner demons I paint in black to represent my shadows that other can’t sense or see. My great accomplishment is being able to find my own unique style and create art that people adore and love. To create something that I’m proud of. Being proud of creating something that people will enjoy and watch. Art has been the hidden talent that has saved my life for the better.
Feeling responsible for situations out of my control was difficult. My grades were awful, it was impossible to focus on anything. I could hardly sleep at night with the amounts of stress I was under. Knowing that my father was an alcoholic with bi-polar disorder opened me up to a new world. I was exposed to so much more than the average kid, especially when he would bring me to the Alcoholic Anonyms meetings. I met so many interesting people threw my father. My entire view of the world and its inhabitants has been altered. Growing up was very difficult but the experiences that I had has shaped the person I am today.
Growing up in my neighborhood was not hard or challenging at all, just because I live in an outer city area in NC which is more of a country setting where it was nothing but small businesses and fields. I am thankful to say I was blessed with great parents who raised me up in the church and both has great jobs and would have no problem getting whatever my siblings and I needed or wanted to have. My mom graduated college twice with both degrees from Southeastern Community College she was an LPN until I was around the age of twelve and then she went back for another degree and became an RN to get a better job and she currently is Unit Manager at Poplar Heights Nursing Center. For dad he did not attend college he did truck driving until I was around the age of five and then he owned his own construction job called, “Simple Fix”. He continued doing that for about four years and it was successful until workers started relocated so he stopped that job and now he currently is the supervisor over nuclear construction at Duke Power
My childhood was somewhat gloomy due to an alcoholic father; verbal and physical abuse was part of my upbringing. An event that I remember that shaped my life was when I failed the first grade. As a child I could perceive it, and these events helped to reinforce and mold future behaviors. During my teenage years I had much difficulty with love relationships even at times having inferiority complex after a breakup.
I had to learn to adjust life without my sibling because my mom did not have enough money for them to be with us and adapt to a new culture. During this my mother and I ended up homeless during the winter months, this was the most brutal and embarrassing time of our life. In my teenage life I have overcome many obstacles; Even though we were living in poverty my mother had high expectation for her children and graduating from high school was just the beginning unfortunately I stumble again, I failed my Math Regent and did not graduate but I was determined not to be discouraged .
I haven't had the easiest life growing up, but I guess who has right? I grew up with an addict, a functioning addict but an addict. I also grew up with my mother and the siblings I know and love who have shaped me to be the strong young woman I am today. My personal development has come so far. I am now almost 20 years old starting to figure out who I am and what I want to do with the rest of my life. Throughout my personal life I have learned you have to get through the storms to have rainbows. Hard times pass you by and you keep moving on. I have been in behavioral health hospitals for anxiety and manic depression, I was attacked, had to deal with sexual assault not once but twice , have dealt with hard earned money being stolen by my father
Growing up for me some would say it was rather difficult and in some ways I would agree. There have been a lot of rough times that I have been through. This has and will affect my life for the rest of my life. The leading up to adoption, adoption and after adoption are the reasons my life were difficult.
My family consists of five children, which today is considered a large family. Of the five I am the youngest by six years. My parents were married for twenty-eight years before they decided that divorce was the only solution. I was fourteen years old and the one child that suffered the most emotional damage. Because of the many years my parents were married and the wide age difference between my siblings and myself I was the only child still living at home with my parents. The day my dad decided to move out was the day my life changed forever.
Our parents work hard to get us where we are today. Due to the fact that my parents had lack of education and there English wasn 't that good they wasn’t able to get a job that was more relaxing. Though they work in company only they were able to earn enough to raise all of us. Through nurture, now that I’m older I don’t exactly see all the struggles that my parent had gone through to raise me, but I do see and understand more about the struggles. Their love for us, nothing can compare to it. Seeing what my parents had gone through and how hard they have work inspired me to work hard, go to school get a good job so in the future they can depend on me and just rest.
Childhood is a time when significant events can and will leave impressions on oneself. It is not out of the ordinary that a large event will at least somewhat shape the mind of a child whether they realize it or not. One event that may have altered me somewhat was when I had to move from my old abode of Baileyton, Tennessee to Morristown to live with my grandparents. This was the result of my mother’s eventual passing after a losing battle with Cancer. Experiencing the “real world” so early may have changed how I think about and come to certain conclusions. I do not think this change in my life was necessarily a negative one, as I got to experience a lot of new things that I may have never had the chance to do. Sure, I had to grow up a bit earlier than your usual child, but I also probably reached a stage of maturity before most.
I had to mature quickly and learn how to take care of someone else besides myself. I am now a mother to four children. They have taught me how to have patience. This has become something I value very much. I have learned that in life you must wait for things. I now know that there was a reason why I had my son so early and wasn’t able to go to college upon graduating high school. I am so thankful that I had patience and waited for the right time to enter. It has been 14 years since I graduated high school, and I’m attending college and know exactly what I want to become. I had patience and took care of my babies at home before I decided to go to school. It hasn’t always been easy, but I’m so glad I
My childhood molded and prepared me for adulthood, there was tremendous growth for me between childhood to adulthood. My childhood made me the person I am today. The events that took place in my childhood inspired me to be a better person in my adulthood. Through my stages of growth from childhood to adulthood my responsibilities have shifted, worry and stress differ and emotions have fluctuated to make me the person I am today.
My mother was taking care of me, and my three other siblings all alone by herself. When my father was living my mother only had one job, but now she had to work more. She had a massive impact on our lives by making sure we had everything we needed. Because I was the oldest of my siblings, I felt like I was a parent. At just eight years old, I had to skip school just to make sure my siblings had someone to look after them while my mother worked. I was obligated to feed them, give them baths, and put clothes on them. It was very difficult, but I knew my mother had to pay bills, and take care of us and herself, so I knew she couldn’t afford a babysitter. When times got very tough, my mom would get stressed out and take it out on us by throwing tantrums, hollering at us and beating on us. I didn’t have a choice but to encourage my mother, and be the one to push her to not give
I strongly believe that everyone’s childhood is reflected in their adulthood. Wearing the same dress every day for a year and being born a stubborn child has molded me into the young woman I am today. Talking a lot and taking in what I learn has helped to develop strong opinions and morals that help me in making decisions every day. I am proud of who I am and where I come from.
My life is a mixture of moments, some happy moments and others not so much, but regardless, these moments have made me the person that I am today and I don’t regret anything that had happen. I consider myself a strong, and a very determined person, I have dreams to fill the world and I am willing to do the necessary efforts to attain those dreams. My motivations I inherit from my family, more specifically my father that I love so much; I have always
But through it all, I am glad i developed through life the way I am, getting my first real job really help me but my best foot forward into the working world of being in adult. I learned a lot of new things, especially the darker and brighter parts of it all. It really helped push me to do other things that I was afraid to do, like getting my license and my car. I thank my father and my mother for being an influence even if it was negative a lot more than I would have liked. All of these events changed me and made me the man i am today, and I would never go back and change any of