Conrad's Suffering In Ordinary People

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After the loss of a loved one, the family is always left with a burden. Sometimes there’s a deep regret for not done enough while the person was still around and sometimes there’s guilt, feeling like you’re to blame for the person’s death. In the film, Ordinary People, the Jerrett brothers, Conrad and Buck, are in a boating accident and sadly, Buck, the older brother, passes away. Conrad is left to mourn the loss of his only brother and also to feel a deep guilt for the outcome on that unfortunate day.
Conrad’s life after his brother’s death becomes distorted and he attempts to commit suicide but fails. After spending a few months hospitalized, Conrad is back to carry out to his life as before. However, it’s not easy after all the events he’s gone through. Buck’s death leaves Conrad feeling with survivors’ guilt, no motivation for anything and anhedonia, feeling almost no pleasure for anything. He develops a lazy behavior, insomnia and loses his appetite. He joins the swimming team but has no motivation and is negative about his progress as a swimmer. He begins to isolate himself from his friends and often has flashbacks to that fateful day of Buck’s death. However, after giving it careful thought he decides to listen to his father’s advice and visit a psychiatrist, Dr. Berger. He’s …show more content…

Berger, twice a week for an hour each day. During the visits, Conrad is able to talk about feelings he has relating to Buck, his parents and his hospitalization. Dr. Berger, in my opinion, follows Sigmund Freud’s psychodynamic model. Conrad is encouraged to use free association, to freely express himself about anything on his mind, no matter how disturbing. Conrad begins to express his dreams, and slowly begins to let his suppressed feelings out. Dr. Berger also challenges Conrad causing him to get upset and start yelling but soon after relaxes. He tries to comfort Conrad about Beth loving him just don’t knowing the ideal way to show

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