In Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, two main characters develop a courtship and fall in love in a similar fashion to the poem written by Margaret Atwood, “Habitation.” “Habitation” aptly describes the struggles that can often occur before marriage. The poem explains marriage, and how many couples endure challenges before reaching happiness. In Austen’s novel, Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy face numerous difficulties during their relationship. “Habitation” resembles the journey Elizabeth and Darcy experience, as both depict the obstacles couples must overcome to uncover the path to true happiness and lay the foundation for a successful marriage.
“Habitation” begins with Atwood asserting what marriage is not, “Marriage is not/a house or even a tent” (1-2). These are physical structures, and not a foundational component of marriage. Atwood proclaims that
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finding love is a process, “It is before that, and colder” (3). Love is a process that includes overcoming obstacles and learning to accept people for who they are inside. In Pride and Prejudice, Austen describes a love story between Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy. Their first struggles are personal obstacles. Upon meeting Mr. Darcy for the first time at the ball in Meryton, Elizabeth develops a preliminary prejudice against him: Mr. Darcy soon drew the attention of the room…the gentleman pronounced him to be a fine figure of a man, the ladies declared he was much handsomer than Mr. Bingley, and he was looked at with great admiration for about half the evening, till his manners gave a disgust which turned the tide of his popularity (Austen 12). She found him to be too proud and conceited, qualities which she did not find attractive. She decides that Darcy is a man not worthy of her company. Similarly, Mr. Darcy forms an opinion of Elizabeth before getting to know her, “She is tolerable; but not handsome enough to tempt me; and I am in no humour at present to give consequence to young ladies who are slighted by other men” (Austen 13). This quote illustrates Mr. Darcy’s pretentious character. Besides Mr. Bingley and his sister, Mr. Darcy snubbed everyone at the ball that evening. Mr. Darcy, a privileged member of society, insults Elizabeth merely because she is not of his social class. Apparently, no one was worthy of his presence that evening at the ball. Furthermore, the poem continues to describe more hardships, and similarly, Jane Austen’s love story faces more challenges.
In “Habitation,” the poet uses phrases that create a gloomy and dark mood. When the poet says, “the edge of the forest” she is referring to a dark time in the couple’s relationship, just like how dark a forest can be at the edge. The edge of the forest is empty, and this can relate to Elizabeth and Darcy’s relationship. Elizabeth and Darcy continue to face struggles, this time being from external influences. Elizabeth’s mother, Mrs. Bennet, is acutely focused on finding suitable men for her five daughters to marry, “If I can see but one of my daughters happily settled at Netherfield and all of the others equally married, I shall have nothing to wish for” (Austen 10). Marriage is seen as a financial union rather than an emotional one. Another setback for Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy is Lady Catherine de Bourgh. Lady Catherine is infuriated when she hears the news of the rumored engagement between Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth. She strongly believes that it is beneath Darcy to marry a woman of lower
status: Hear me I silence. My daughter and my nephew are formed for each other. They are descended on the maternal side, from the same noble line; and on the father’s, from respectable, honourable, and ancient, though untitled, families. Their fortune on both sides is splendid. They are destined for each other by the voice of every member of their respective houses; and what is to divide them? – the upstart pretensions of a young woman without family, connections, or fortune! (Austen 345). Lady Catherine represents the old, elite aristocratic class, who clings to traditional values and beliefs. While Lady Catherine’s visit was intended to push Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth apart, ironically, it actually brought the two of them closer together. Despite these setbacks, Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy thrive in their relationship, “we are learning to make fire” (“Habitation” 12). Elizabeth and Darcy realize that they were both foolish in their actions. Each was guilty of allowing their own prejudices to cloud their judgment. It is evident that the poem, “Habitation” captures the pivotal moments of Elizabeth and Darcy’s relationship. In both scenarios, relationships encounter rough moments, but ultimately, reach harmony. Although Elizabeth and Darcy experience both internal and external conflicts, they are able to flourish as a couple, despite outside criticism.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth Bennet’s journey to love and marriage is the focal point of the narrative. But, the lesser known source of richness in Austen’s writing comes from her complex themes the well-developed minor characters. A closer examination of Charlotte Lucas, Elizabeth’s dear friend in Pride and Prejudice, shows that while she did not take up a large amount of space in the narrative, her impact was great. Charlotte’s unfortunate circumstances in the marriage market make her a foil to Elizabeth, who has the power of choice and refusal when it comes to deciding who will be her husband. By focusing on Charlotte’s age and lack of beauty, Austen emphasizes how ridiculous and cruel marriage can be in this time.
Proud and arrogant, Mr. Darcy stands at the head of the room giving a cold, dark stare. He gives the impression at the first ball to the people of Meryton that he is prideful, looks down upon their society, and that he possesses poor manners. Mr. Darcy, new to town, is perceived by the Bennets in a demeaning light. After the ball Elizabeth’s mother says, “…Lizzy does not lose much by not suiting his fancy; for he is a most disagreeable, horrid man, not at all worth pleasing. So high and so conceited that there was no enduring him! He walked here, and he walked there, fancying himself so very great! […] I quite detest the man." (Austen. 9.). The opinions Elizabeth holds of Mr. Darcy are completely formed from the opinions of others. She also does this because at the first ball she hears Darcy exclaim to his friend, “She is tolerable; but not handsome enough to tempt me,” (Austen. 7). From then on, she continually attacks him with snide, biting remarks. Because Mr. Darcy refuses to dance with Elizabeth at the first ball in Meryton, she becomes determined “never to dance with him,” (Austen. 13). Elizabeth soon meets Mr. Wickham, who lies to portray Mr. Darcy as a coward who disobeyed his father and ruined Wickham’s life. Through his deceitful charm, he gains Elizabeth’s trust. In ad...
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There is in every thing a most remarkable resemblance of character and ideas between us. We seem to have been designed for each other.” (Austen 142) this reassures Elizabeth that even though the Collin’s marriage is not based on love, they have found a way for their marriage
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