Initially Hazel and Augustus were mere acquaintances with slight feelings for one another. As they got to know each other better, Hazel became apprehensive about being too close to him as she was afraid that he would be grieved by her impending demise. Despite this, they eventually developed an intimate relationship as Augustus loved her too deeply to give her up. Paradoxically, the pain they suffered brought joy into their relationship. When they first met, Hazel commented that Augustus putting a cigarette in his mouth was “Totally disappointing. Totally”. This shows that Hazel could not accept their differences yet. The mirroring of the word “totally” emphasizes the greatness of the disappointment she felt towards him, signifying that their …show more content…
This shows that Augustus’ interesting personality led Hazel into loving him. When Augustus touched Hazel’s face, she thought that “the gentle familiarity felt wrong”. A “gentle familiarity” should connote warmth and affection. The irony that it felt wrong suggests Hazel’s strong disinclination in building an intimate relationship with him. Furthermore, Hazel said that she was “like a grenade”. A “grenade” is an object which blows up and inflicts harm on people nearby. This simile shows that Hazel is afraid she would hurt Augustus greatly through her imminent death from terminal cancer. This bears a disheartening and melancholic mood. However, after Augustus started making small sacrifices for Hazel, she “put [her] hand on top of his” when he took his first plane flight. This action connotes reliance and connectivity, where Hazel finally accepts him. In Amsterdam, Hazel described Augustus as wearing “a black suit, narrow lapels, perfectly tailored, over a …show more content…
This reveals that she treasures her more frequent visits, from which she derived great joy despite their suffering. Therefore, their relationship blossomed from mere acquaintances to intimate lovers when they overcame their unfounded fears of hurting each other through their death. They learnt that without pain, sometimes there can be no joy. The major turning point was when Augustus asked Hazel to exchange their “favourite book”. Augustus realized that Hazel’s favourite book was incomplete towards the end and to grant Hazel’s wish of knowing the ending of the book, they flew to Amsterdam together to look for the author. The pain they went through together when Augustus revealed about his terminal illness and when the author treated them nastily, made them treasure each other more. Lastly, Augustus’ illness had caused Hazel to visit Augustus more frequently, which strengthened their relationship, drawing them closer than
Although, the human heart was meant to deal with that much pain. joy and disappointment in one day, never mind one hour. To her sister Josephine, it would appear that she died of joy when she saw her spouse was not. dead. Then the snares are dead.
Her family life is depicted with contradictions of order and chaos, love and animosity, conventionality and avant-garde. Although the underlying story of her father’s dark secret was troubling, it lends itself to a better understanding of the family dynamics and what was normal for her family. The author doesn’t seem to suggest that her father’s behavior was acceptable or even tolerable. However, the ending of this excerpt leaves the reader with an undeniable sense that the author felt a connection to her father even if it wasn’t one that was desirable. This is best understood with her reaction to his suicide when she states, “But his absence resonated retroactively, echoing back through all the time I knew him. Maybe it was the converse of the way amputees feel pain in a missing limb.” (pg. 399)
The intimate encounter with death brings her depth of erroneous to the sanity realm. On the contrary of “First Fight, The Fiddle” where life is celebrated and cherished, despite all calamities transpired in life. No matter how hard the life could get, to any individual, any race, any society, life will prevail as always. Even in the most violent times, when hope has strayed, the will to survive
Their love was eternal and his death was the worst moment of their everlasting
The love in ones heart is not always as noticeable as we would like it to be; yet it is always present if someone truly loves another. It is hard not to have such a strong and desirable love for someone you have missed in the past. Ma and Tom Joad had so much love for each other, and it is rather funny how no one really noticed it but them. They always looked out for one and other during the hard times, it was the helping hand of the other that made them survive. "She crawled close to his voice ` I wanta touch ya again, Tom. It's like I'm blin', It's so dark. I wanta remember, even if it's only my fingers that remember `..." (569). If that person that you love with all your heart has to leave you, it would be the worst feeling in the entire world because you would know just then that you might not make it without them during the tough times. Ma Joad feels that exact emotion toward her son Tom. Thought must run through both of there head about how they will ever live without the other. It is a hard thing to face and a hard thing to defeat. The relationship between Ma Joad and her beloved son Tom is more than just family love; during the trip their connection grew to dependence and need.
...ed to confront the deep pain that she has carried in her heart; she must give an account of her life as she comes closer to the shadow of death.
Firstly , in the beginning of the story shows Hazel’s motherhood effect on her daily life: “Hazel didn’t want to eat outside – the amount of suncream you had to put on a baby and the way he kept shaking the little hat off his head... – so not only would she have to do all the work, she would also have to apologise for doing all the work when she should be having a good time, sitting outside and watching blue-bottles put their shitty feet on the teat of the baby’s bottle while everyone else got drunk in the sun” (Enright, 2008, p.138). Not to mention, Hazel was exhausted from taking care of her baby instead of enjoying herself like the others did. Despite of that, she couldn’t because in Irish motherhood; a mother who is laid back and neglects the children is not considered as a divine role.
Death is not a lover.” (57). As it is shown the woman feels hopeless so she kills herself. Although she is not the only one who wishes to die. The little boy admits to his father that he no longer wants to live in such a cruel world. “After a while he said: You mean you wish that you were
Her character shows a relatively normal being who has been so indoctrinated by the thoughts of total equality –the thoughts of the times– that she can do nothing but agree with them. This is shown when Hazel says she thinks society would fall if people were to start cheating at the rules, and that it would be like the “dark ages” again (Vonnegut, 1961). Really, Hazel is the “good” in the rather broad theme of good versus evil of the story. Though Harrison is the main protagonist, Hazel plays an important role in the story. She gives the reader an unfiltered look on the world she lives in, and the thoughts and feelings of the time, and for these reasons she becomes a crucial part–a
Hazel is a fiery little girl. She is strong-willed and openly opinionated, and believes that “when you got something on your mind, speak up and let the chips fall where they may” (Bambara 297). Although she is still very young, she has principles of what she believes to be wrong and right. She believes that her Hunca Bubba is not who he used to be since he has fallen in love and become engaged. Hazel feels betrayed by Hunca Bubba because when she was a little girl, he promised he would marry her. He is no longer Hazel’s Hunca Bubba; now, he is Jefferson Winston Vale. Hazel is befuddled with the entire situation. She is heartbroken that he seems to undermine the importance of his promise, by saying, “I was just teasin’” (298). He seems to be completely unaware that by breaking this promise, he has distorted Hazel’s entire outlook on trustworthiness. Hazel expresses her concrete belief that people should follow through with what they say, when she is commenting on the incident at the movie theater, “ I mean even gangsters in the movies say My word is my bond. So don’t nobody get away with nothing far as...
Mrs. Mallard’s repressed married life is a secret that she keeps to herself. She is not open and honest with her sister Josephine who has shown nothing but concern. This is clearly evident in the great care that her sister and husband’s friend Richard show to break the news of her husband’s tragic death as gently as they can. They think that she is so much in love with him that hearing the news of his death would aggravate her poor heart condition and lead to death. Little do they know that she did not love him dearly at all and in fact took the news in a very positive way, opening her arms to welcome a new life without her husband. This can be seen in the fact that when she storms into her room and her focus shifts drastically from that of her husband’s death to nature that is symbolic of new life and possibilities awaiting her. Her senses came to life; they come alive to the beauty in the nature. Her eyes could reach the vastness of the sky; she could smell the delicious breath of rain in the air; and ears became attentive to a song f...
A common feeling when a spouse loses his or her significant other is devastation like Mrs. Mallard initially felt when “she wept at once, with sudden, wild abandonment,” but then she began to feel free (Chopin 236). She expresses her feelings for freedom by repeating the word “Free! Body and soul free!” (237). She was exalting with glee as she came to more of a realization that her husband’s death meant “she would live for herself;” however, right after her celebration, her husband walked in the front door (237). This shocked Mrs. Mallard to the point of death, ending her emotional breakdown.
her mind, and beloved serves as a form of therapy by drawing out the painful
...ir relationship Augustus shows Hazel how to live each day to its fullest. Another theme would be the courage within the characters. Hazel and Augustus are cancer patients and they are definitely tougher people because of it. The way they approach their close deaths takes a large amount of courage in itself.
Their love surpassed the hatred in which the families endured for generations. In the end, they both ended up killing themselves, for one could not live without the other. This story is a perfect example of true love.