Commentary on the Article: I Want a Wife by Judy Brady

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In I Want a Wife by Judy Brady, the author generates a captivating argument concerning a wife's responsibilities in a family household. The article was published in Ms. magazine in 1971, this magazine was a feminist which makes this biased. The article becomes visible to be leading towards women, married audience. Nonetheless, her message also goes to clueless men.

In Brady's short story the main argument was of the writer wanting eagerly a wife ,a caregiver, a maid. Bardy's reason for wanting a wife is to make life easier on herself and do the things she wants to do. This shows how much effort a housewife puts into their household and children. The Purpose of this short story goes more in depth such as a marriage relationships and gender specific, also this art of literature is provocative and makes you cross-examine your thoughts on wives.

Judy writes in her essay regarding the requirements that are demanded from a wife. She stresses the jobs of a wife are unfair and that there is a clear difference of inequality between a husband and wife. Fatigued by the inconsistency in the household work and the obvious work of a wife that does not get recognized, she communicates her feelings to us the readers. Brady shows her point with examples of household tasks that are mainly accomplished by a wife. Brady lists tasks after tasks which make it seems as being a wife is physically and mentally impossible, Brady then finishes her short story with a cry of desperation , "My God, who wouldn't want a wife?"

Being a housewife has its disadvantages such as working everyday without help nor acknowledgment from anyone. All around the world housewives are folding clothes, arranging closets, cleaning millions of surfaces and cooking every...

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...need a break and want someone who will do everything for them.

In conclusion, “I want a wife” goes more in depth of just the typical wanting a wife just because the tittle says so. It is more about the emotional pain a wife has to go trough to take care of her family. In the end Brady could have not stated it better, “My God, who wouldn't want a wife?”

Works Cited

Elizabeth , Scott. "Stay-At-Home Moms and Stress Relief."Stress Management. Relate, 08 Apr 2008. Web. 6 Mar 2014.

Gottman, John Mordechai, and Nan Silver. The seven principles for making marriage work. Random House LLC, 1999. Print.

Jhonson, Rachael. "Men are as Useless as Homer." . Associated Newspapers Ltd, 15 Jun 2013. Web. 6 Mar 2014.

Olsen, Wendy, and Smita Mehta. "Female Labour Participation in Rural and Urban India: Does Housewives' Work Count?." Radical Statistics 93 (2006): 57.

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