Childhood Nature Vs Nurture

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The topic of nature vs nurture is a very big issue in the world of psychology. Many people believe that nature affects a person more than nurture does, while others believe it's the other way around. It is quite obvious to me that these processes go hand and hand with each other but nurture is the dominant of the two. Nurture is what makes us ultimately who we are not the nature. All the components that go along with nurture such as, childhood experiences, how one was raised, and social relationships, give me reason to believe this. Growing up, children are very impressionable and this can cause one to be easily influenced by their environment. Childhood experiences shape a young child's mind. When a child is experiencing …show more content…

Everyone gets some of both, but are the traits one receives what really makes them really them? I believe otherwise. Parents are a vital part of not just a child's life, but a person's life in general and what they pass down to someone is not what ultimately shapes them, it's really how the parent raises the child. Every parent has something that they do differently with their child and something they want to teach that child and this is why every child is different. If the way a parent raised a child did not matter and would not effect the child whatsoever then why is every child not the same? Would that not consist of the environment they grow up in not being a serious matter in who that child becomes? It would. People are all different because of how a parent did or did not raise them and this effects the child more then they probably even know. It affects how the child begins to view people and also how that child will build relationships with …show more content…

Even if the parent or parents were there it will still effect the way the child develops a close or semi close relationship with other people. If the child is able to build relationships and friendships with people with ease their personality will most likely be more extroverted do to them being open to being friends with as many people as they can. On the flip side, if a child is not as open to being everybody's friend and is very selective on who they choose to be around or call friend, then their personality will be more introverted. Having an extroverted personality doesn't mean that one's parents were present and consistent in their life but it means that even if they have experienced the worst of the worst they don't victimize themselves and that they don't let the bad things in their environment shape them into a bad person. They let it shape them into a great person so that the energy they emit is positive and anyone who will be around them and in their environment will shape themselves to become great people as well. Now if someone is an introvert that does not mean that they are a bad person or that their parents weren't present in their life, it simply means that whatever experiences they have had they chose not to let people in so easily to where they could mess

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