1. Initially Reyna Grande and her siblings Carlos and Mago were left behind while her parent immigrated to the United States to work. During that time Grande faced many struggles among the most prevalent were her feelings of abandonment, the neglect she and her siblings faced at the hands of their paternal grandmother, and the ostracization. Reyna was left behind when she was a baby by her father and had no concrete recollection of him and her mother left when she was four. Until that point Reyna’s mother had been the only parental figure she had known. The abandonment didn’t stop at the physical absence of her mother, but also at the emotional unavailability of her mother when she finally did return. In the absence of their mother the Grande children were to be cared for by their paternal grandmother Evila who was largely hostile and neglectful. Though their grandmother provided them with housing and at least some nourishment she was in no way emotionally supportive or loving toward them often blatantly displaying her preference for their cousin Elida prominently as if to reiterate the favoritism. The children were often ostracized amongst their peers due to their status as “orphans”. In opposition to their cousin who, although in the same predicament she was seen as …show more content…
Reyna Grande, crossed the border with her father and siblings at the age of ten. Initially her father was hesitant to take her due to her age and her ability to handle such a difficult and dangerous trek. Crossing the border was such a difficult task that it took the Grande family multiple tries before they were successful. During their last attempt they hid in bushes after hearing a helicopter and fearing it was immigration. Their first attempt ended with the family being caught. Their father had warned that if they were caught again, he would have to once again leave them behind in Mexico. The stakes of not being caught were raised just that much more for the children as they crossed the
Read the posted case study about Benita Vasquez and discuss the following questions: 1. What are the clinical causes of death in the story? a. Senora Vasquez died because of uncontrolled diabetes, Infected wound and diffusing kidneys. With not well-controlled diabetes and acquiring an infected burn wound makes it harder for the patient to get treatment. Thus with the condition of the patient and her current social status, she is unable to afford the treatment and medications needed to alleviate her suffering.
Family is one of those words that have a significant meaning to various individuals. Family may be viewed one way to an individual and another way to someone else. Family consists of those who have played a particular role in one’s life, whether it is positive or negative. In this paper, I will assess Reymundo’s family both nuclear and extended and speak of how his family has become significant in his life and how they have played a role in his decisions. I will also speak of my personal reactions to the story as well as address ways that as a social worker I could work to impact the gang problems in Orlando.
This novel is a story of a Chicano family. Sofi, her husband Domingo together with their four daughters – Esperanza, Fe, Caridad, and Loca live in the little town of Tome, New Mexico. The story focuses on the struggles of Sofi, the death of her daughters and the problems of their town. Sofi endures all the hardships and problems that come her way. Her marriage is deteriorating; her daughters are dying one by one. But, she endures it all and comes out stronger and more enlightened than ever. Sofi is a woman that never gives up no matter how poorly life treats her. The author- Ana Castillo mixes religion, super natural occurrences, sex, laughter and heartbreak in this novel. The novel is tragic, with no happy ending but at the same time funny and inspiring. It is full of the victory of the human spirit. The names of Sofi’s first three daughters denote the three major Christian ideals (Hope, Faith and Charity).
To understand fully the implicit meaning and cultural challenges the film presents, a general knowledge of the film’s contents must be presented. The protagonist, Tita, suffers from typical Hispanic cultural oppression. The family rule, a common rule in this culture, was that the youngest daughter is to remain unwed for the duration of her mother’s life, and remain home to care for her. Mama Elena offers her daughter, Tita’s older sister Rosaura, to wed a man named Pedro, who is unknowingly in mutual love with Tita. Tita is forced to bake the cake for the wedding, which contains many tears that she cried during the process. Tita’s bitter tears cause all the wedding guests to become ill after consuming the cake, and Tita discovers she can influence others through her cooking. Throughout the film, Tita’s cooking plays an important role in all the events that transpire.
Reyna Grande, crossed the border with her father and siblings at the age of ten. Initially her father was hesitant to take her due to her age and her ability to handle such a difficult and dangerous trek. Crossing the border was such a difficult task that it took the Grande family multiple tries before they were successful. During their last attempt they hid in bushes after hearing a helicopter and fearing it was immigration. Their first attempt ended with the family being caught. Their father had warned that if they were caught again, he would have to once again leave them behind in Mexico. The stakes of not being caught were raised just that much more for the children as they crossed the
Another concept of motherhood as featured is that of strength where after her parents divorce, Maya’s mother is able to move on with her life and even support her daughter against her boyfriend, Mr. Freeman. Here, Maya considers the aspect of strength as one of the pillars of motherhood and she persists with it despite her doubts and fears as a young woman. When she goes back to Momma’s house after Mr. Freeman’s death, she experiences the strength of her grandmother in helping her to overcome her silence.
In the article, Granados shows ups and downs of diversity between a mother and a daughter choices. Granados used to think that she is a typical American and she wanted her life to be like an American T. V. show, but on
The Narrator’s family treats her like a monster by resenting and neglecting her, faking her death, and locking her in her room all day. The Narrator’s family resents her, proof of this is found when the Narrator states “[My mother] came and went as quickly as she could.
Jeannette's mother let her children roam free and protect themselves against the dangers of the world. “fussing over children who cry only encourages them, ….. its positive reinforcement for bad behavior” pg.17. This caused Jeannette at age 3, to fall into fire and go to the hospital for months. Jeannette's mother didn’t want to have to deal with her children and told them to figure things out for themselves. This selfish act done by her mother forced her children to grow up faster. Therefore Jeannette resented her parents and wanted to make a better life for not only herself but her future children. This pushed her to succeed in life, yet without her negative relationships with her parents she might have not been able to do great things in her
Eva is a single mother of three children. The father of these children left her to raise them by herself. This proves to be an extremely difficult task for her to complete. Eva is a very poor woman, and does not have much to provide for her children with. Her, “children needed her;
While her father went to the United States to find a better place to live for his family, her mother became hopeless and took care of her and awaited his arrival. Like any other teenager Ladydi and friends pondered on ways to escape her situation. She often fantasized of a future that did not consist of concerning herself with basic survival such as safety. Ladydi imagined her future as carefree, harmonious and unified. One day Paula (Ladydi’s friend) and Ladydi were together when Paula was abducted. For some reason they didn’t take Ladydi they only took Paula. When Ladydi was 16 she was hired to be a nanny for Domingo family in Acapulco, Mexico. During her stay with the Domingo family she romanticized with the gardener, Julio. Regrettably, Ladydi’s past followed her when she arrives in Acapulco. On the journey to Acapulco, Ladydi’s friend’s brother, Michael, compromises her safety by including her in a drug transaction. Due to her transaction with a drug lord she was unlawfully accused of being a spectator and accomplice to the murder. At the moment of her arrest she had truly realized what had happened to her friend Paula. Paula had become a slave mistress for a drug lord and they had completely dismantled her mind. Although Ladydi was wrongfully convicted and underaged she was immediately sent to women’s prison. Contrary to popular belief prison was slightly more of a stable environment. She was empowered and educated
Angela's family is poor and her father is disabled after losing his sight and becoming blind working as a goldsmith. She has two brothers Pedro and Pablo who are twins and are pig slaughters for a living. She also has three other sisters, one who died of nighttime fevers. When discussing Angela and her family the author writes, "The girls were reared to be married" (Marquez 31). Angela Vicario's mother, Pura Vicario, was the one who raised Angela an her sisters. Angela's mother knows all her daughters are going to be able to accomplish in life is marriage. Machismo has made their society believe women are too weak to do their own work and the men must do it all. She is raising the girls with the intention of teaching them how to be good wives and mothers. Pura does not consider the possibility of Angela or her other daughters wanting to do something else. She raises them without giving them the opportunity to do anything else in life. Angela's mother taught her daughters they are never going to make a life for themselves and they need to find a husband to survive. Angela's mother did not ever give her daughters the opportunity or the recourses to become themselves and have their own ambitions. The lessons Angela's mom taught her as she was being raised, forced her lose herself and her identity in order to be what society
Papa for example is a hardworking man and does what he must do to make ends meet. Esperanza’s family may represent the typical immigrant family; Hence, Esperanza’s parents are both hardworking, loving, supportive and very caring. Many immigrant parents are very selfless and give everything they have for their child to succeed. Esperanza is the Chicana who is fortunate enough to have this support and move ahead in life. Although she may not have the money, she has the support and Sandra Cisneros does a great job emphasizing on the importance of a community, of a family in order to
When women are kept in their classical role of mother and caretaker, all is well and their lives are simple. Children relate positively to their mothers in this typical setting; while Dantés was in prison, during a time of distress, he remembered something his mother had done for him. For example, Dumas writes, “He remembered the prayers his mother had taught him and found meanings in them which he had formerly been unaware.” (41). Mothers teach their children to the best of their ability, evidenced in Dantés, as well as when Caderousse says Mercédès is instructing her son, Albert. It is in these moments that a mother’s love, compassion, and necessity are revealed. Lives are calm and enriched as long as women are in their niche. This includes non-maternal nurturing roles, for example, Mercédès attentiveness to Dantés father and Valentine’s special ability to care for Nortier. This loyalty is valued and shown as essential for the stability of life. Though The Count of Monte Cristo depicted women as best suited to the home, they intermittently stepped further out of that r...
In the most literal sense a mother is supposed to take care of her children and love them unconditionally, but Jimmy’s mother did the exact opposite. Jimmy’s mother and father would always have arguements, and this led to Jimmy’s mother leaving his father. Moreover, one day Jimmy’s mother dropped him and his brother off at Jimmy’s grandparents’ house. And as Jimmy’s mother is driving away Jimmy states, “I tried to pull free of Grandma’s hand, and I heard her say, ‘“Manana sea major con el favor de Dios.”’ Tomorrow will be a better day with God’s help. But as she led us into the house, I knew tomorrow would never be better. Something in my life had changed forever” (17). In that quotation, Jimmy is brought to realization that his mother would be leaving him forever, and Jimmy knows that this event would inevitably change the outcome of his life. Furthermore, the loss of Jimmy’s mother caused agony to dwell in his heart forever. In addition, the loss of his mother played an immense role on the rest of Jimmy’s life, and to this day, Jimmy never forgave his mother. This agony caused Jimmy to never trust anyone again. Also, throughout the next couple of years in Jimmy’s life, Jimmy would become familiar with the bars that he would soon call home. Jimmy Baca then states, “My parents never did come, and at thirteen years old I