Bridesmaids Luncheon Research Paper

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The Big Day is swiftly approaching. The bridal shower took place without a hitch. The final details are in place for the rehearsal dinner and reception, and your maid of honor assures you that preparations for the bachelorette party are well under way. Everything seems to be running smoothly. Then, without warning, your mother throws a wrench in the entire works by casually asking if you intend to host a bridesmaids' luncheon.
"Bridesmaids' luncheon?" you howl. What is that? Is it required? When does it take place? How will I ever pay for another event? Relax. Bridesmaids' luncheons are entirely optional and no one will fault you for opting to skip this delightful custom. Before you do though, read on about this special wedding event that doesn't …show more content…

Despite what the name implies, the luncheon does not have to be, well, a luncheon. In years past, particularly in the South, the bridesmaids' luncheon was held on the day before, or the day of the wedding. Typical fare was generally quite light -- salads, fruits, finger sandwiches, and sherbet or cake for dessert. Today, the luncheon has been reinvented as dinner at a favorite restaurant, brunch in the bride's home, even an afternoon of group pampering at the local spa. The event can be formal and elegant, with crisp linen napkins and fine wines, or casual and fun, with pizza and pitchers of margaritas. While the day before the wedding is still a popular time to host the luncheon -- your bridesmaids will all be in town -- you may choose to have your event earlier, perhaps after the final dress fittings, for a less stressful gathering.

Presents Please. Regardless of who hosts the event, the luncheon provides a wonderful opportunity for the bride to present her attendants with their thank you gifts. While in certain areas the bridesmaids also jointly give a gift to the bride, in general no such gesture is expected -- each bridesmaid has, after all, purchased a shower gift, a wedding gift and her bridesmaid's attire. If your mother and future mother-in-law will also be attending, you might want to take this opportunity to provide each with a small gift in thanks for their

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