Breaking Up With Someone

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What To Do When Breaking Up With Someone Breaking up with someone is one of the hardest things to do in life. There are many people left in pieces because their ex partner went about breaking up with them in completely the wrong way, and many choose not to love again because of it. If you want to break up with you partner it needs to be in a way that the both of you have closure so that you don't hurt them too much in the process. Here are some things to keep in mind when it comes to breaking up with your partner: 1. Find the right place and time - When breaking up with someone it may be best to do it in the privacy of your own home. This could be the most embarrassing thing to have happened to your partner, so it is best that you don't …show more content…

Tell them in person - Be strong and tell them you want to end the relationship face to face. It's always tempting to break up with someone over the phone or by text because it's easier that way, but never do this to your partner. It may be easy for you, but it won't be for the one you are doing it to. So don't be selfish and give them the respect that they deserve by breaking up with them in …show more content…

Be sensitive but clear - Tell them up front that you are calling off the relationship and remember to keep your tone of voice, facial expressions and body language friendly. Deep down you feel happy because you are ending the relationship that you don't want to be in, but try to keep them feelings to yourself until you leave the situation. Remember that your ex partner has feelings too so be sensitive with the approach and keep it short. The less you say the less likely you will fumble your words making it become awkward for the both of you. So keep it short, make it clear and be sensitive with how you go about it. 5. Listen to what they have to say - Once you have said all that's needed to be said, let them have the chance to speak. Listen to what they feel needs to be said, you are breaking their heart right now so the least you could do is listen to what they have to say in response to you calling it off. By listening to them, they may be more accepting of the break up and you could also benefit from what they have to say about your faults in the relationship so you can change your ways before entering a new

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