Bless Me, Ultima Essay

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In spite of what mothers want to believe, boys grow to become men. The morning after Tony witnesses Luptio’s death, he wakes up and goes to the kitchen. He sees his mother and Ultima, and they begin to discuss Tony becoming a man: “‘…but my Tony is only a boy, a baby yet.” She placed her hands on my shoulders and held me. ‘Ah, but boys grow to be men,’ Ultima said as she sipped the black, scalding coffee” (33). By using the words “boy” and “baby” to describe Tony, Antonio’s mother suggests that she is not ready for Tony to grow up and to become a man. Ultima, however, does not agree with Maria’s opinions. Because she says “boys grow to be men,” Ultima knows that Tony will become a man. Because Ultima brought Tony into the world and is with him throughout a part of his boyhood, Ultima may even see him grow into his manhood. Furthermore, because of her part in bringing Tony into the world was vital, she suggests that her role in bringing Tony into his manhood will prove to be just as vital. Although “scalding” is used to describe the coffee, it has a double meaning. “Scalding” means incredibly hot (relating to the coffee), but it also means caustic and stinging (in terms of language). Thus, Ultima’s words could have had a stinging effect on Antonio’s mom who does not want her son to grow up and become a man too quickly. Through Ultima’s stating that Tony will soon become a man, she suggests that she will witness his becoming a man and that she could play a role in this transition.
Even after death, a mentor can give guidance through the agency of memory. After burying Ultima’s owl, Antonio rushes into his home to see Ultima and to have one final conversation with her before she dies. He has enjoyed years of her guidance and advice,...

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...t all the responsibilities that come with being a man. By using the word “obeyed” to describe his mother’s reaction to the command, Antonio implies that his mother accepts his instructions and, thus, his manhood. Since his mother does nothing to oppose this command, the reader can assume that she acknowledges that her son has grown up and that he knows what is best for his family, qualities generally associated with men, not boys. Antonio’s words are much more firm than those of his mother. His mother “reassure[s]” Tony’s sisters while Tony commands his mother to take his sisters away. By not merely attempting to make his sisters feel better, Tony demonstrates that he will take the necessary steps to restore order within his family’s household. Thus, Tony has become the man of the house. Ultima’s mentorship of Tony culminates in his becoming a man within his family.

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