Being A Stranger Essay

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Being a stranger in the village often means moving out of one’s comfort zone, and in to a completely new place; having to adapt and learn new things. I am a 17 year old female and have had to experience being the stranger in a new place many of times. Living with my grandparents my whole life also puts a stop to much of the traveling and such. Staying in the house all of the time was never good for me and being the stranger in a village has helped me get out of my comfort zone, and really learn new and different things, it also helped me decide who I am as a person, and what I truly believed in and what I am passionate about. January of 2008, my mother and step father (at the time) could no longer pay the bills and still feed 2 kids and a …show more content…

She could see how much the change was upsetting me, and one day I became physically ill and that was all she needed to send me on my way back home. My last day in Louisiana, we all went down to the farm and for the first time in six months my cousin let me ride her horse, her brother helped me feed her and their little brother chased us while we road. That night, we had a cook out at the barn with a couple of their neighbors and close friends and I finally ate after being sick for almost a month. The next morning we got in the car and we left to come back to my beautiful state, Georgia. Today, I still use this experience to help me when I walk into new places or try new things because if I can get through that experience I can do things that I actually do want to do. I truly believe that being a stranger in the village has helped me overcome a lot of my fears as far as new places and meeting new people. It also has helped shape who I am as a person, how I wat to be treated, what I believe in, the things I love, and the experiences I want to have when I get

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