Bad Family Relationship Analysis

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I can relate to Toads family relationship as my parents enter the critical parent state because when I try to speak to them on a serious occasion such as my personal life they start shouting and do not agree to certain activities I would like to participate in, which for the most part leads me to the adapted child state due to becoming angry and sad as my parents will not really listen to certain things. This links in with Toad as he was bossed around by Badger who was in the critical ego state whereas Toad had entered the child ego state and became passive, obedient and subservient which leads Toad to become sad, angry and fearful. (reference) At this time of my life, my parents have moved into the critical parent state due to putting other family members thoughts first which have made them become more overprotective towards me which really is stopping me from doing certain things, for example, going out with friends of other genders such as males. During …show more content…

This would relate back to Toad as he generally was not always confident because he was rarely able to be himself so would generally hide behind his friend Rat but after a certain time he was able to be more confident and not hide behind Rats

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