Autonomy: Breaking The Chains Of Patriarchal Bodily Comportment

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Kyle Kavully Professor Ainsley Lesure POLS 1825O 14 April 2024 The Phenomenology of Female Autonomy: Breaking the Chains of Patriarchal Bodily Comportment. Women have been socialized as others to the man, therefore defined by how they look and feel to others rather than to themselves (Lorde 64). Their bodies are viewed as objects through which people, specifically men, can project identities and ideas of how they should behave. Because of such socialization, women’s identities have developed relational to the man and this strict characterization has led to problematic ideas of feminity and bodily autonomy (Young 138). Such limits inhibit them through a patriarchal lens and have become adopted principles for men and women, alike. But, when …show more content…

This internalized oppression reinforces the disconnect between women and their bodies, which Audre Lorde wholeheartedly opposes in detailing her battle with cancer, a battle which spurred another fight with gendered expectations. Lorde's Cancer Journals poignantly illustrates how patriarchal norms dictate women's bodily attire, particularly in the context of illness. In the latter pages of Cancer Journals, Lorde details an experience post-mastectomy during which she felt most confident after dressing up meticulously and going to the medical offices. Rather than being met with words of affirmation, a staff member expressed her great discomfort with the missing prosthetic breast Lorde chose not to wear and dampened Lorde’s healing process (58). A woman who intended to find confidence after a painful and tolling procedure was painted as invalid for doing so because she failed to meet her gendered expectations. Is the point of recovery for a breast cancer patient to perceive a false body part or come to love her body in its absence? The patriarchal gaze has convoluted the importance of owning the female body beyond male expectations. The pursuit of a woman's desires can thus be seen as a double-edged sword in the context of bodily autonomy. On one hand, asserting one's …show more content…

She demonstrated how neglecting societal expectations of beauty during her battle with cancer can help a woman discover what feels good to them and how that pleasure should derive from the self. Rather than ignoring it, Lorde has included her amputation into her lived experience (16), embodying what has happened as a uniquely feminine experience. Her positionality as a Black, queer woman post-mastectomy provides an opportunity for margin-to-center analysis of femininity. While women may not share experiences with Lorde, her argument that the physical and mental needs of women following such a procedure far exceed aesthetics helps build an argument surrounding their objectification. In denying the prosthetic, she expands female conformity because the prosthesis does not make her feel confident, accepting her womanhood without breasts does. Her motivation stems from wanting women to escape from deeply ingrained patriarchal beliefs that seek to maintain the status quo and uphold traditional gender roles. While it may create discursiveness amongst other women, it is solely because they have not been allowed to embody themselves as such. In choosing to accept her body, Lorde affirms the importance of bodily autonomy and self-love in shaping

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