A father can have the greatest impact on his son, acting as a role- model and has a strong influence. Arnold Junior was named after his father who took a larger part in his life. If somebody read this book once and just skimmed through it, they would probably just think of his father as a crazy alcoholic who sometimes forgot about his son. There was more of a role that Junior’s father played in the book. The small details Sherman Alexie expressed really helped us see the impact Junior’s father had on him. For example, Junior wore his father’s suit to the Reardon dance, and that made him feel more confident and better about himself. In the book, there is this theme about how the young and the old have their own different takes on hope. …show more content…
There is a point in the book where Junior was talking about his father and said, “Whenever my father isn’t off on a drinking binge, he spends most of his time in his bedroom, alone, watching TV. He mostly watches basketball. He never minds if I go in there and watch games with him. But we never talk much. We just sit there quietly and watch the game's. My dad doesn’t even cheer for his favorite teams or players. He doesn’t react much to the game's at all. I suppose he is depressed.” This quote helps us learn about how Juniors father didn’t have much knowledge in the topic of basketball, and no hope for the future. He grew up thinking that his race affected his purpose in the world and his future as an Indian individual. The way Juniors father and him can exchange I love you’s and how just a few sentences from his father can make him feel stronger and better about himself is truly astonishing. It really shows the impact that Juniors father has on his son. Junior has a disadvantage in the world because of his race and background. I still believe that Junior wouldn’t have evolved from a small, unconfident Indian boy to a still challenged, but stronger without his father and his small memories that he had with his father. When you think of somebody, there are certain things that help you distinct them from other people.
Maybe it is their appearance, or special memories that you’ve had with them. If I was put into Arnolds shoes and had to think about my father, I would think about the moments where I learned a lesson from my father. For example, on page 55, there is a small moment that made a big difference in the relationship between Junior and his father. Arnold’s father was trying to prepare his son for his new begining at Reardan High School. Arnold’s father quotes, “Those ;;;≥white people aren’t better than you. This is a great thing. You’re so brave. You’re a warrior.” This was a special and very important memory in the text. Arnold's dad had always been unhopeful, and these small phrases made a big difference in his character. It also benefited Arnold and helped him boost his confidence. Aold definitely expressed that he knew his dad didn’t mean what he said, but the fact that he did say those special, motivating words was the turning point in that small car pep talk. . It really helped him focus on himself and the people who love him. Arnold then quoted, “I felt stronger so I stepped out of the car and walked towards the door.” Junior wouldn’t of been the character he was at the end of the book if it wasn’t for that small conversation he had with his
father. An evolution is a gradual development of something, or somebody. Throughout the book, Junior’s father evolved from an unhopeful alcoholic to a loving father who learned to have hope for his son and his son’s future. In the beginning of the book, when Junior’s very good friend Oscar had to be killed due to a severe sickness. Junior quoted,” I wanted to punch my dad in the face. I wanted to punch him in the nose and make him bleed. I wanted to punch him in the eye and make him blind. I wanted to kick im in the balls and make him pass out. Dad just looked down at me with the saddest look in his eyes. He was crying. He looked weak.” Junior’s father was completely hopeless, and as Junior said, weak. If you can picture your father looking down on you, crying, and not knowing what to do you would feel pretty discouraged and disappointed. Junior’s father came into the book introduced as a weak and unhopeful parent. Then there was a moment towards the end of the book where Junior was waiting for his father to pick him up. Junior quotes, "I prayed to God that my father would come up driving in his old car. Please God, don’t kill my daddy. Ten, fifteen, twenty, thirty minutes went by. I was freezing. My hands and feet were big blocks of ice. My ears were burning cold. Oh man, I was a absolutely convinced that my father was dead, too. It had been too long. And just when I’d thought I’d start screaming, and run around like a crazy man, my father showed up. I started laughing. I was so relieved, so happy, that I LAUGHED. And I couldn’t stop laughing. “ “Junior,” he said. “What’s wrong with you?” “You’re alive!” “But your sister-,” he said. “I know I know,” I said. “She’s dead, but you’re alive. You’re still alive!” This long quote really helped show how Junior and his father’s relationship evolved over the course of the book. After Eugene died, then his grandmother, and then his sister, Junior felt that his father was dead. That amount of joy and happiness Junior displayed when he saw his father’s car approach Reardan was the point where their love for one another was shown. Junior was so happy to see his father and to see him alive and Sherman Alexie really showed how much Junior loved his father just in that small moment. I think that Junior’s father as a character overall didn’t evolve as much as Junior and his father’s relationship did throughout the book. Junior and his father had a strong bond and they both needed each other in their daily lives. I think that the beginning of the book showed Junior and his father as two different people and not how they connect together, but throughout the book Alexie incorporated little moments where they learned a lesson, and expressed their love for one another. After I read the book, I thought that we were just going to write this essay and be done with the whole thing. However, we worked on a project that expressed our artistic sides and got into the perspective of another character in the book. I really enjoyed creating cartoons about Junior’s dad because I think that I expressed his hopeful and unhopeful sides very well. It helped me take a closer look into the book and deeper into Junior’s father's character overall. I went into the project thinking that he was an important character, but not as important as I learned. When I looked into each chapter that involved Junior’s dad more closely, I payed attention to the things that he did for Junior and how Junior reacted to those things. I learned about Junior and his father’s bond and brought that to the thought of how you may have friends, or special ones who you care so much about that might leave you. But your family are the only people who are always going to be there no matter what and you cannot get rid of them. I believe that Junior wouldn’t of evolved throughout the book without his father by his side. I think that the importance of family was a strong theme throughout this book and it was the core that brought Junior and his father closer.
Murderer, liar, manipulator; these are only a few words that describe the enigmatic Sergeant John Wilson. In the historical book, The Secret Lives of Sgt. John Wilson: A True Story of Love & Murder, written by Lois Simmie, we get acquainted with the complex balancing act of a life John Wilson lived. We find out about his two-faced love life, the bloody solution, and the elaborate cover up. In Simmie’s thought-provoking book, John Wilson abandons his family in Scotland, for a better life in Canada on the force. John battles debilitating sickness along with the decision to double-cross his wife. His young love interest Jessie cares for him as he battles tuberculosis. While, “many young women Jessie’s age would have had second thoughts about commitment
In the short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” written by Joyce Carol Oats, the writer includes a very interesting character. One of the main characters, Arnold Friend, is a dynamic character due to the sudden changes of this physical appearance and personality. At first he seems charming and a little on the sweet side, but then his dark side starts to show as the story progresses. He first appears when Connie abandons her friend to go with a boy named Eddie. Arnold is seen in his gold convertible Jalopy, which is the first sign that he wants to be alluring. His first words in the story are "Gonna get you, baby" this foreshadows his intentions when it comes to Connie
Growing up, Victor and Thomas didn’t get a long so well. Thomas was often annoying and Victor just wanted to be left alone. Thomas often talked of Arnold and Victor never wanted to talk about his deserted father. The last thing that Victor wanted to do was talk about the father that bailed on...
Troy?s relationship with his father was one, which produced much tension, and had a strong influence on Troy?s relationships with his loved ones as an adult. He had very little respect for his father because his father did not, in Troy?s mind, make his family a priority. At an early age, Troy?s father beat him ?like there was no tomorrow? because he caught Troy getting ?cozy? with a girl (549; I,4). Troy said that ?right there is where [he became] a man? (549; I,4). It was at that moment that Troy made the decision to free himself from his father?s power. Despite the fact that he did eventually escape his father?s wrath, the struggle with his father?s aggressive behavior and lack of love resulted in a coldness that resided in Troy?s heart toward life and love. His father did not care about his children; children were there to work for the food that he ate first. Troy describes his feelings toward his father by saying, ?Sometimes I wish I hadn?t known my daddy. He ain?t cared nothing about no kids. A kid to him wasn?t nothing. All he wanted was for you to learn how to walk so he could start you to working? (548; I,4). Although Troy had very little respect for his father and vowed to be nothing like him, many of his father?s harsh personality traits show up in his own personality. Despite Troy?s continuous attempts to push himself away from anything he had ever known about his father, the inheritance of such irrational behavior was inevitable because it was all he had ever known. The inheritance of this angry behavior was, in turn, the cause of his damaging relationships with his own family. Just as Troy endured his father?s cruel ways, Troy?s family is left with no choice but to try to learn to live with his similar ways.
In Red Sky At Morning by Richard Bradford, Josh, the main protagonist, has to deal with his dad, Mr. Arnold, enlisting in the navy. This caused him to be mentally and physically faced to cope with this loss, in ways he did not know he was capable of. This is causing Mr. Arnold to have a compelled effect on him. When his father decided to head out for the army, Josh was left with both positive and negative consequences: his alcoholic, abusive mother slapping him, Josh starting to drink and becoming more responsible for life changing choices that he was acquired to fulfill. Although, Josh's and Mr. Arnold's relationship is very good, his mother's relationship with him distances tremendously since his dad leaves for the navy.
...parents were much more successful in the working world encouraged him to complete many daily activities such as choir and piano lessons. His parents engaged him in conversations that promoted reasoning and negotiation and they showed interest in his daily life. Harold’s mother joked around with the children, simply asking them questions about television, but never engaged them in conversations that drew them out. She wasn’t aware of Harold’s education habits and was oblivious to his dropping grades because of his missing assignments. Instead of telling one of the children to seek help for a bullying problem she told them to simply beat up the child that was bothering them until they stopped. Alex’s parents on the other hand were very involved in his schooling and in turn he scored very well in his classes. Like Lareau suspected, growing up
...d to treasure what they have and stop complaining. Arnold’s miserable life can be an inspiration, and his bravery can encourage the readers to pursue their dreams no matter how impossible they seemed. Tragedies make this story convincing.
Adam breaks the cycle of fathers picking favorites and brothers hating each other by accepting Cal. Lee said, “Help him, Adam—help him. Give him his chance. Let him be free.” (438) The chance that Lee is asking Adam to give is very important to the resolution of the conflict. The chance that Adam gives Cal shows that he equally accepts his two children by giving them both the opportunity to succeed. The conclusion helps showcase the themes of rejection, good vs. evil, and favoritism. The conclusion also provides peace to the reader by making the Trask family break the cycle of paternal rejection. Overall the conclusion helps the reader also understand that the Trask family is not as bad as they are portrayed because they overcome their mistakes and move on to overcome the rejection and evil they faced earlier in their
The role of a father could be a difficult task when raising a son. The ideal relationship between father and son perhaps may be; the father sets the rules and the son obeys them respectfully. However it is quite difficult to balance a healthy relationship between father and son, because of what a father expects from his son. For instance in the narratives, “Death of a Salesman,” and “Fences” both Willy and Troy are fathers who have a difficult time in earning respect from their sons, and being a role model for them. Between, “Death of a Salesman,” and “Fences,” both protagonists, Willy and Troy both depict the role of a father in distinctive ways; however, in their struggle, Willy is the more sympathetic of the two.
The play “A Raisin in the Sun” by Lorraine Hansberry has many interesting characters. In my opinion, the most fascinating character is Ruth because of her many emotions and captivating personality. She goes through extreme emotions in the play such as happiness, sadness, anger, stress, and confusion. Ruth is very independent, firm, kind, witty, and loving.
The entire novel is written in the point of view of the main character Arnold. The reader would feel as though they are having a conversation with a close friend and is then better able to relate and sympathize with Arnold’s struggles and accomplishments. For example, Arnold begins telling the reader his story by stating, “I was born with water on the brain.” (Alexie, 1) Explaining his medical condition in the beginning of the novel allows the reader to easily understand why Arnold may react differently to certain social situations. However, his medical condition also acts as an anchor allowing the reader to get closer to Arnold’s character. Without a personal connection readers may not relate or comprehend any of Arnold’s experience. Using the first person view perspective from Arnold’s character gave Alexie an advantage and makes the novel more appealing to readers.
In the story, Arnold’s perception of himself changes and is essential to understanding his evolution as a character. According to Matsumoto and Juang (2013) self-construals or self-concepts are “the ideas or images that one has about oneself and how and why one behaves” (p.343). An independent self-construal sees the self as “a bounded entity, clearly separated from relevant others” and with a focus on the individual’s qualities (Matsumoto & Juang, 2013, p. 345). Meanwhile, the interdependent self-concept is “unbounded, flexible, and contingent on context” and with an emphasis on relationships (Matsumoto & Juang, 2013, p. 346). In the novel, we can see the coexistence of the self-construals in Arnold. In the beginning Arnold decribes himself as “a poor-ass reservation kid living with his poor-ass family on the poor-ass Spokane Indian Reservation” ...
As Mr. P, Grandma, and Mary share a small piece of their lives with Arnold, they show him how hopelessness, insecurity, and disregard to curses can make people's lives miserable. Even though everyone in society recognizes this, they cannot break free because they do not have the opportunity of a higher power to break them from their generational curses. As Junior observes all of this, he decides to be the one who breaks free by using the hardships of the curses presented to him as a motivation. He is a symbol of hope in the midst of a generational curse.
By gaining a deeper understanding of the story and looking at the language used the message is clear; that a role model such as a father figure does not have to be a biological father to be a father in the heart. It also teaches an important lesson of respecting and listening to elders because they can teach you invaluable lessons. Today people become so dependent on technology that they fail to notice what is about them, even if it is right in front of them.
Fathers are men who help to shape and mold children, youth, and young adults into the adults they become. Some fathers are biological, but many are men that are introduced through daily interactions and occurrences. The father figure may have a positive or negative impact on the child. This is true with the character Jim Hawkins from Treasure Island. Many characters guide his growth throughout the book with good and bad traits. He looks for a father because his own father is not a factor in his life. He dies when Jim is a young child and does not seem to have a significant effect on Jim’s life. Ben Gunn, Dr. Livesey, and John Silver provide Jim with examples and characteristics he incorporates into the person he becomes. Jim, like many others, find father figures to identify with and pattern their own lives after whether it is a blood relative or a person they choose from their surroundings.