Analysis Of ' No Pda ! '

Emotions

“No PDA!” I will continue to hear through out my day when I went from class to class at the midst of passing period during high school and middle school. I never knew what teachers meant by saying that until they would start to get on my case about showing some affection to the girlfriend I had at that time. That was when I learned that “PDA” abbreviates Public Display of Affection and one of the first times I learned an American display rule. At the same time, I believe some manners may contribute to the display rules. Then, the topic of it is “unmanly” for a man to show their emotions. The other discussion about holding in anger opposed to expressing it. I believe there are limitations to how men show their emotions, but I do believe that men should be able to show their emotions. Also, anyone should be able express his or her emotions instead of holding it and letting it all come out all at once.

First, Some of the American display rules are manners. As an example, when I was younger I was taught it is unacceptable to belch and not say excuse me at the table with even if the situation is accidental. My mother would poke arm or pinch my arm as punishment until I would say those majestic words to make my arm stop hurting. I completely understand why burping at without saying excuse me is unacceptable now. No one wants to here anyone else let out gas in anyway. It may have a disgusting same that follows it, and is so unexpected that the belch may offend someone. It is followed by facial express of disgust. Some people get angry with others people belching in public because it is disrespectful to anyone around. Another example, one manner heavily required in my household as a child was not to slurp on anything at all wh...

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...mily members, but at the end of the day I still will protect and support any decision. As long as their decision is made from what they desire. On the contrary, I have gained many great opportunities when I am calm and thinking about what I come out of my mouth while discussing with important people in the school and place I have worked at. Therefore, I believe it his favorable to express your emotions then holding it in.

Everyone be able to express their emotions, but men should have the same ability to share their emotions but with limitations. I believe the social acceptance of a man ability to express emotion should change. Some of the expectations of manners are made of what is expected by the American “Display Rules”. Plus, there is no one thing wrong with someone expressing his or her feelings because that what makes everyone unique. “Come on just a one hug”.