Analysis Of Brrene Brown On Empathy

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Richard Eyre once stated that “change begins with understanding, and understanding begins by identifying oneself with another person; in a word, empathy”. Nancy Mairs, a writer with multiple sclerosis, writes about her experiences as a disabled person, naming herself a “Cripple” by emphasizing how the diagnosis never change her tendency to interact with people or view the world. Mairs’s circumstances are supported by an animated video entitled Brene Brown on Empathy by Dr. Brene Brown. This video break down for the viewers, a difference between empathy which means feeling a connection toward a person 's emotions, or circumstance and sympathy which is being completely disconnected from a person feeling. Essentially, a person who wants to …show more content…

In today’s world, humans are exposed to many different types of illness, and diseases’, some are born even born with critical health conditions. But as a matter of fact, that should not change their perception of viewing their life. As Mairs once stated, society prefers being a dead than being crippled. She uses sarcasm to let readers know that despite the fact that many people could offend her, by calling her terrible names and making her feel depressed due to her disability, she does not care. By evoking audience empathetic and showing them that it does not matter that she is crippled, she express gratitude that at least she is alive and able to breath. This is shown in her words: “I want them to see me as a tough customer, one to whom the fates/gods/viruses have not been kind, but who can face the brutal truth of her existence squarely” ( Mairs 1).Mairs’s choice of word and her resilient tone indicate that she is strong even in her weakness. Despite Mairs’s illness, she does not want the society to believe that because she was disabled, they could take advantage of her and treat her unfairly.She also mentions how she wants to be a tough customer, and she uses her strength to make a connection with readers who have a disability like

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