A Wrong Dream Leads to Self-Destruction

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During a family reunion, I hear my parents and family member gossip about other families and problems. I would always tune them out or ignore them. However, on one of those reunions, I heard them talking about, a family friend, Ajay. They were saying that he left his family, friends, and his country for a girl. He went to a foreign country to have a fresh start in life or the American word, “personal rebirth.” He did that because he got rejected by the girl's family. Her family rejected him because he was not in their social class-“old money”. He believed that he could go to a new place, where no one knows him and start a new life. He thought he could make money and one day come back and ask her to marry him. After two years, he returned to India, with the money he earned. But when he got to India he found out that the girl was married to a man in his village. All his hope were lost, and he did not know what to do because all his life he had one goal: to marry this girl. He lost his beliefs in “personal rebirth.”
Just like Ajay, many men in society at first, think that personal rebirth is possible, but when met with failure they give up. In The Great Gatsby by Scott Fitzgerald, the main character, Jay Gatsby, spends most of his life believing in possibility of personal rebirth. Gatsby believes that in order to achieve his dream of having a life with Daisy he needs to be "someone"/wealthy which causes him to withhold from the reality. (leading to his destruction).

Even though Gatsby archives other dreams throughout his life, yet his main focus has always been a life with Daisy. Nick learns about Daisy and Gatsby's relationship from, Daisy's close friend, Jordan. Nick believes it is a coincidence that Gatsby bought the house acr...

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...evident that possibility of personal rebirth is a failure. In todays society, possibility of personal rebirth is very low. The chances of getting away with personal rebirth is very small. Society is always trying to bring these people down by making them feel bad about their decisions. Like Ajay, there are many people out there, who are trying to achieve something in their life. Meanwhile, people around they are discouraging them.
Dalai Lama once said, “Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't anyone who doesn't appreciate kindness and compassion.” Even though he is not referring to the American Dream. His point here is that men and women, have to show kindness and compassion towards their fellow citizens. If he wants to change, or be a new person, appreciate him and motivate him rather than discouraging him.

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