I am really good at keeping up with my work because I stay focused and know when to slack off and when not to. I'm also good at being a good friend or classmate and helping people. Whenever my friends or family need help I will always be there for them. One of my strengths is that I am confident in myself and my friends. I know that as long my family and friends believe in me, I can do anything I set my mind to. Something I can do really well is help my classmates when they need help understanding something I know a lot about. I might not know them but I know that helping a person is the right thing to do whether I hate them or not. I have been told that one of my strengths is my kindness, but I'm not sure because I am told to be really rude sometimes. I am only rude when I have those days when I don't want people to be talking to …show more content…
I know that I can change this for my friends. Changing my self for someone else isn't a good thing, but we all have to sacerfice something to keep the people who care about us by our side. I don't think I'm good at being kind and cooling down. Before I was able to control my anger issues but now it's like I want to stop and think but my head tells me to hurry up and take action. One of my weaknesses is that I am not a person to sit back and watch people suffer. Watching people suffer whether I know them or not still hurts me. Something I struggle to do is being harsh and tough because I hate hurting people, but I also hate people hurting me and the people I care about. If there comes w time when it's the outside world versus the people I care about. I will always choose the people who I care about the most. Most times I try my hardest to help solve the problem but I know in my heart that I can't solve everything. I need a lot of help to keep my anger issues down because I know that with this I can hurt people more easily and won't be able to control it
My five strengths according to the strength finder include; balance, this helps me be aware of treating all people equally regardless of the situation. I am neither in anyone 's favor or against anyone as this to me is selfishness and individualism. This would result in a situation where some people scale heights due to connections while others are lagging behind. I believe that a consistent environment where the rules apply to everyone is the best for individuals to function best (Rath, 2007). Flexibility is my next strength. By knowing that things do not always work out as planned has helped me change the tactics of how I perform my tasks. I do not always expect to have a smooth flow of opportunities or accomplish goals, but
People who chronically suppress their anger carry certain characteristics to their personality. They tend to have at least one addictive behavior, such as gambling, drinking, drugs, etc. They tend to be moody and cope with their moodiness by trying to feel happy, and also try to be around other people who they believe are happy. They try to keep their inner struggle with anger out of their awareness, as well as away from other people’s awareness. This struggle is a constant struggle and so the need to suppress their feelings and redirect their attention is also constant and tends to be impulsive, rising and falling with the tides of their inner struggle. Individuals who chronically suppress anger tend to find others who are going through similar struggles
I think my main strength is Life Purpose and Service. I am fulfilling my reason for being here by continuing my education at the University of Wisconsin – Stevens Point and in having chosen my major, Clinical Lab Science. Part of the reason I chose this major is because I enjoy helping people and am passionate about the field. I love helping people in any way I can, I have volunteered for many organizations such as City on a Hill, a volunteer organization where underprivileged people can go to receive food, and health care (physicians, eye doctors, podiatrists, etc). I also volunteer with youth groups in church (Music and Drama camp and Vacation Bible School). I find a significant purpose and fulfillment out of helping others.
Another strength that I have is being an active listener. I listened to my clients and utilized a lot of micro skills. Insuring confidentiality was also a strength that I developed closer to the end of field placement. Conducting assessments and making sure I tracked and exhausted the topics was also a strength that I identified throughout field. Practicing from a strengths perspective was also another area I excelled at when working with my clients. A skill that I could work on is being more conscious of self in terms of body language during interviews, because at times I find myself with my arms cross which may give an indication that I’m closed off or
Everyone has felt anger or aggression many times in there life. It happens all of the time. We all face the same challenge of trying to control our temper. It may be easier for some people than it is for others. Many studies show that it is healthy for a person to let out their anger once in a while. They believe that it will help in your relationship with others and that it will increase your self-esteem. They also believe that holding anger in is bad and unhealthy for your body. If you let the anger build up it could go from just being a verbal argument to a point in which someone or something is hurt or destroyed. To control your anger you should release your aggression in a way that is not harmful to others or yourself. People that look into a problem more closely can control their anger better. These people get all of the facts and make a proactive decision. Also by looking into the problem your may find out that it wasn't as bad as you first thought. Looking into the problem will also help you look at the consequences of the action you are going to take. Researchers also believe that tv and movies have an impact on the ways we release our aggression. They believe that in some way we are all influenced in some way by movies and tv shows that we watch. If we can learn to control our anger we will see that our life, and everyone else's life is a lot safer and more peaceful.
My strengths include an uncanny open-mindedness and an unrelenting kindness and gratitude towards my fellow humans. If I was to ever have any true weaknesses trying to hard is the first one. My need to be a perfectionist sometimes gets the best of me; I strive for excess in all areas of my life. I think it is of the most importance to understand your strengths and weakness. I’ve improved my strengths through exposure and emphasis. From the beginning I always found a passion in my school’s Gay-Straight Alliance, I went on to lead them for the last two years. I am an exceptional member of my school’s National Honor’s Society, and I have done more than what is expected of me at my job at Hy-Vee and have been proud to do so. My abilities and performances have taught me a lot throughout life and I have discovered who I am and what I can be. I have found that I am a leader. I have found that I am in control of the situations I find myself in. I’ve grown throughout my trials by finding the lesson in every circumstance. I am adaptable and continually grow from my misgivings. I choose to see the glass half full and see in the positive. Every weakness that I have is a strength waiting to be built upon. To uphold these standards for myself I will need to draw upon all that I
From my evalutation and observation from my tutor I was told that my personal strengths is that I am organised and I meet the needs of my learners by using the correct media. For example I use all the correct media to produce really good lessons and lesson plans. An example of this is when I use the internet to use prezi, and create professional presentations. I also communicated with other learning professionals to meet the learner needs and encourage my profession to my students. I inspired them to take a career in ICT, as my lessons have been really good and they enjoyed it.
You can of course take your anger out of others, but this typically isn't a very good idea for a number of
Yes I have had trouble controlling my anger and tongue. These are things that I will strive to improve. I know the problem areas were talking to girls from my past and I now have them out of my life. I believe I shall leave you with the words of the Lord given to the prophet Ether, “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.” Ether 12:
But don't get angry on anything and everything. When you get angry, choose to let it off, take a few breaths, or countdown to ten, or analyse why you are upset. Realizing that you are caught with anger is the right way to begin to deal with it. All your anger is about something what has happened in the past or will happen in the future and not what is happening in the present moment. So if you can be in the present moment you cannot hold on to anger for long. So be in the present moment to avoid holding on to anger. Physical exercises can relieve your
I am going to begin with outlining the two separate plans I had for these strengths. To embrace my kindness I wanted to begin expanding my acts of kindness across the campus in any way I could. Then, I wanted to bring that kindness into myself and practice a certain amount of self kindness. To instill this self kindness I also had to learn to forgive myself and allow a longer leash than I’d previously been giving. The low result for my forgiveness and mercy levels shocked me and I realized that there were really only two grudges I
My first strength is significance, and in reality, I am a productive person. Sometimes I like to put myself surrounded with productive people because they are not afraid of working hard, and I will feel comfortable in this environment. Being productive can help me to manage my time. Also, I want to be an influential person. This is the reason that I choose renewable energy to study. I want to improve our living environment. Being a productive person can help me to achieve this goal. My quest pushes me
Right after getting mad, my reasoning doesn’t kick in. It usually takes ranting to someone and about an hour before I realize the reason they might have done it, or figure out that it really wasn’t that bad. After that, it usually takes a day or two before I fully let it go. To solve this, I think I need to take a couple of really good breathes and just close my eyes for a minute and think of things I love and just calm down before I make rash decisions that make me feel disappointed in myself
This has manifested itself in simple heart to heart talks with people I know, with members of my church, and with teaching the younger children at my church. I am now capable of not only expressing my pain, but also how it has transformed into a much better person. I am able to mentor young children that are experiencing similar difficulties. An example of this is when I spoke to a young man about divorce, for years he had been having problems with having a relationship with his father because he left his mother. I had to explain to him that he needed to address his emotions instead of permitting his emotions to manifest as anger. I let him know how much journaling and reading motivational materials allowed me to free myself from things I had no control over. After much insistence, he began to use my advice and slowly his hardness melted away. And when I think back, I realize that none of that would have been possible without
Being a person who likes to getting angry will not provide happiness for your soul, in the end it will lead to regrets deep inside your heart. Just control your emotions, so your actions are much more restrained.