A Separate Peace Essay

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friendship in a separate peace by John Knowles

Finding out who someone really is can be a very difficult thing to do. Knowing who some one is inside and out takes time and dedication. I learned that there are a few key factors when getting to know who some one really is. Character determination of a friend can be based on three things, honesty, trust, conflicts, and how they are resolved . The book a separate peace by John Knowles deals with all of these issues in the case of friendship. You can use these three factors to see how good of a friend a person can be, and determine there true character.

All through the fifteen years I’ve lived this life there has always been one redundant term told over and over. Honesty is key, and if your talking about a friendship that ‘s true. If you don’t have honesty you don’t have anything to base your relationship on. Being honest to a good friend should be subconscious, and if it’s not then I wouldn’t consider them a good friend. You shouldn’t have to struggle with a friend to be honest. In a Separate peace Finny is always honest and speaks his mind. Gene on the other hand comes across honest, but you can never really tell. He …show more content…

Physical and mental wars can do this easily. Gene fought a mental war with himself over the tree incident, and weather or not he did it on purpose. He fought for so long that he gave up and pushed the issue away. He was changed after that. He didn’t even know where his friendship stood with Finny. He became dishonest about the accident with other people, and untrustworthy worthy to Finny. The physical war that Leper was in probably changed him in the ways of honesty and how he resolved conflicts cause he was crazy. Also, after being in a war trust because you would have to question the integrity of the people that were killing each other. Those are the two most important factors when you have to determine someone as a

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