Why Women Cheat Essay

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Infidelity in relationships is a common occurrence. We live in a societal world that demands monogamy. Most partners believe that monogamous relationships are the only moral choice, and when stepping out of it partners must do it clandestinely. Moreover, if one has not experienced the act of being cheated on by their partner, then there’s a good chance they may. A question that is constantly asked by others is, “Why does cheating happen differently depending on the gender?”. Women generally cheat for emotional reasons due to, inattentiveness, low self-esteem, and insecurity; in contrast, men generally cheat for affirmation, egotism, and narcissism; as a result, reflecting gender differences in relationship perceptions. Inattentiveness is one of the various reasons why women generally cheat. The saying “If you won’t do it, someone else will” is a precise example for women who seeks attention from another person other than their partner, who are lacking in giving attention to their spouse. For instance, women desire the feeling of being wanted in their relationships, therefore lack of attention and communication can make her feel unappreciated. If a woman feels unacknowledged in her relationship; consequently, she will seek what she is lacking in someone else. Another …show more content…

Women cheat because of inattentiveness, low self-esteem, and insecurity; On the contrary, men cheat because of affirmation, egotism, and narcissism. These may seem like huge differences, but the effects are very similar. Cheating is wrong no matter how it is done, or why it was done. If a person is not ready to be in a monogamous relationship they shouldn’t put themselves and their partner in a situation where boundaries are crossed, and trust is

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