“Blame” is defined as the responsibility of a fault, mistake, or wrongdoing. People resort to blame because it is natural, and easier, for humans to deny their own mistakes, rather than feel the shame and fear of taking responsibility for their own faults. This is fully supported by a quote from It’s Not My Fault: The No-Excuse Plan for Overcoming Life’s Obstacles, a book written by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. The authors wrote, “We live in a culture of blame. People will blame anyone or anything for their misery sooner than take the responsibility to own it and make it better.” In William Shakespeare’s play, The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, the feuding families, the Capulets and the Montagues, constantly blamed each other for problems and fights that took place all over town. In the midst of the chaos, Romeo and Juliet became attracted to each other and made choices that led to their suicides. The two families found it easier to blame each other for their mistakes rather than admit to their fault and fix the damage they caused. It became clear throughout the play that the rivalry between the two families and the “young love” between Romeo and …show more content…
When Romeo and Juliet met and believed that they fell in love, the pressure of the hostility between the two families caused them to make irrational decisions that lead to their deaths. In the play, Romeo and Juliet made the hasty decision to marry each other in secret (Romeo and Juliet, 2.2.151-153). This hastiness and pressure to marry in secret was caused by the rivalry between the two families, and if Romeo and Juliet had been more careful about the decisions they were making, their deaths could have been avoided. Once Romeo and Juliet made the decision to marry each other in secret, their marriage became a harder secret to protect, and this caused more impulsive decisions to be
For example, after finding out that Romeo is a Montague, Juliet says, “My only love, sprung from my only hate! Too early seen unknown, and known too late! Prodigious birth of love it is to me That I must love a loathed enemy” (I, v, 136-139). Juliet acted too fast and fell in love with someone that is an enemy of her family. When Juliet says, “Too early seen unknown, and known too late”, she means that she fell in love with Romeo without knowing who he was. The most logical conclusion we can draw from this is that their relationship was moving so quickly that Juliet had already kissed Romeo and fallen in love with him before even knowing his identity. Their choice of proceeding with their relationship so quickly is one of the reasons that led to Romeo and Juliet dying. Additionally, when Romeo and Juliet were talking to each other on the balcony by the orchard, Juliet asked, “What satisfaction canst thou have tonight?” (II, ii, 126), and Romeo responded, “The exchange of thy love’s faithful vow for mine” (II, ii, 127). The fact that after only kissing each other once, and talking for a brief amount of time, Romeo and Juliet want to get married, illustrates that their free will and decision making got them killed. Since their families are enemies, it was an obviously terrible choice for Romeo and Juliet to get married. The choice to get married this early in a relationship definitely played a big role in the tragic deaths of Romeo and
Why is it that we as human beings feel the need to blame someone for every negative situation, which occurs? If we really look at the situation with any great depth, we may discover that an almost endless amount of things may be 'blamed' for the tragedy blaming an individual is pointless - only fate can really be blamed.
Romeo and Juliet’s impulsive behavior is strongly influenced by their infatuation and the irresponsible encouragements of their adult figures, ultimately resulting in their tragic downfall. Despite only meeting twice, Romeo and Juliet are extremely attracted to each other, and the emotional factor motivates them to get married. They did not consider the consequences of their actions or ask their parents for their approval of the wedding, instead, they choose to get married in secret due to the grudge. The grudge creates a physical barrier between Romeo and Juliet’s communication and interactions, due to their family’s blind hatred towards each other. Despite the possibility of getting killed, Romeo is willing to cross the Capulet’s gates in hopes of catching a glimpse of
Romeo and Juliet is a play that is a very well known love story of two star-crossed lovers that come from feuding families. The play Romeo and Juliet takes place in Verona, Italy and is a story of two desperate lovers that come together and fall in love with each other despite their feuding families. Throughout the story there are many events that lead to the tragedy that is Romeo and Juliet killing themselves. The true question is not how they died but rather who is to blame for their death. There are three things at fault for their death which are fate, the Capulet family, and Friar Lawrence who is most responsible for this tragedy.
In Romeo and Juliet, by William Shakespeare, written in the late 13th century is about two doomed lovers. Romeo and Juliet, who are members of the two rivaling families of Verona, fall in love at a Capulet party. These star crossed lovers overcame many obstacles, but their doomed love eventually led them to death. Romeo is most to blame for the tragic ending of Romeo and Juliet, because he does not think carefully about his actions before he acts, he is too passionate, and is extremely persuasive.
Romeo and Juliet were victims of young love. This caused them to make impulsive decisions without thinking of the consequences. Being victims of young love is what also caused them to be victims of their own actions, not victims of fate. Throughout the play, Romeo and Juliet made numerous decisions quickly without thoroughly thinking of the possible consequences they may have. In the short time period that they knew each other, they made decisions such as crashing the Capulet’s ball, marrying within 24 hours of knowing each other, and committing suicide after learning the other had done the same. This all led me to know that they are victims of their actions.
The Death of Romeo and Juliet and Who is to Blame Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy by William Shakespeare, in which a young boy and girl fall in love and commit suicide. They come from 2 different families which have a deadly feud against one another. Romeo goes to a masked ball at the Capulet's household where he falls in love with Juliet. He then proposes to her after the party in secret at Juliet's balcony. Romeo then arranges a secret weeding with Friar Lawrence and Juliet tells the Nurse.
Throughout time, there have been many tragedies cause by romance. For example, the play Romeo and Juliet, by William Shakespeare, is known for its romantic tragedy between two star-crossed lovers. With all the deaths, who is truly to blame for Romeo and Juliet's deaths? Friar Laurence is most to blame for many obvious, yet overlooked reasons.
Romeo and Juliet’s Tragedy: Who is to blame? “Morality is the judgement to distinguish right and wrong, vision to see the truth, courage to act upon it … and integrity to stand by the good at any price” (Ayn Rand) In Shakespeare’s play “Romeo and Juliet”, misjudgements lead characters to be blinded by a false reality, negatively impacting the lives of two star-crossed lovers. To start, the Nurse and Friar Lawrence's (Friar L’s) “parental” role in Romeo and Juliet's (R and J’s) life lead them to try to fix the feud between the families which hurt R and J. Next, the lack of understanding of how deep R and J’s love is lead them to give bad advice. Lastly, though they loved R and J, some of their choices are made based on fear.
Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet is about two star-crossed lovers, Romeo and Juliet, forbidden to be together because of feuding families. Countless people contribute to Romeo and Juliet’s predestined fate and misadventures. This ultimately leads to Romeo and Juliet’s suicide. Who is more to blame for Romeo and Juliet’s death? Although Juliet acts rashly, Romeo is more to blame.
Ally Krzeczkowski Mrs. Zupec E116-4 20 March 2014 Who's to Blame? Who is the most to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet? In William Shakespeare's play, The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence gives Juliet a fake poison and when she takes it, she goes into a deep sleep that makes her appear dead. Juliet is then buried in her family's tomb and when Romeo goes to the tomb, he drinks actual poison and kills himself because he cannot bear to be without Juliet.
Firstly, Romeo and Juliet’s problematic marriage was a result of their impulsiveness. In Verona, the Capulet-Montague feud was infamous: even the servants loathed each other. Therefore, Romeo and Juliet knew of the consequences their marriage would entail since their families dislike each other. Yet, they still took that risk and got married. Afterwards, their secret marriage caused a big problem for Juliet. Lord Capulet was unaware of
In William Shakespeare’s play ‘Romeo and Juliet’ the main characters are responsible for their own deaths because they refuse to accept responsibility for their own actions. Romeo acts irresponsibly throughout the play making inappropriate decisions. Juliet is persuaded out of her apprehensions by Romeo and is blinded by her unrealistic love for Romeo. However, the two lovers cannot be blamed entirely for their own deaths as other characters and the two lovers’ feuding families hold responsibility.
In the story “ The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet “ the main characters get themselves in a pickle by falling in love knowing that their families are sworn enemies. Soon Romeo kills Juliet's cousin by accident, Juliet drinks a potion, some words get twisted and at the end both of the lovebirds end up dead. At the end of the story both families are devastated that both of their children pass away, but there are also many unanswered questions. The most asked question in the story is “ Who's to blame? ” and overall I believe everyone has a little part in influencing their death, but I believe that one person is to blame for most of this and I believe that it is the mother and father of Juliet.
Blame is where there’s no conversation or discourse. It leads to the idea of wanting to ‘perfect’ those around you by dangerously configuring another person to be someone they are not. For example, a parent may want their child to grow up with a strict education and having believed they have their child’s life already planned out. To continue, they force this child to abstain from love and