Triangulation: The Impact Of Marital Counseling

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Marital counseling can be seen affecting the couple, as well as the couple’s family systems. There are ways there the family can affect the couples counseling. Family systems are complicated and have different ideas and concepts that affect the family differently and can affect different people in the family systems. Triangulation: Couples participate in triangulation in their relationships on a regular basis. Triangulation is when the couple brings in a third person into their relationship to help stabilize the relationship and help them deal with conflict (Anderson, 2011, pg. 58). The couple could bring in a friend or a family member. When the couple participates in therapy, the therapist is brought in as the 3rd person. When the therapist becomes part of the triangle because of relationship distress, the triangle will have the coupe in distress but the couple has a stable relationship with the therapist. Triangulation is seen as a way for the coupe to redirect their tensions in the relationship away to the other person. When the triangulation …show more content…

Individualization is when an adolescence can separate from the family and explore who they are and they learn autonomy. A person who has not successfully gone through individuation will not be able to participate in a healthy relationship. The individual should be able to function on their own, and have control over their spending, and be able to think for themselves. If a person does get into a serious relationship or marry they could show signs of emotional dependence. This is where the individual needs their partner for approval, and stability. When relationship conflict arises the therapist would have to work with that individual to help them develop individualization so they can learn to be independent and become an ‘I’ in a ‘We’

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