The Needy Guy: Character Analysis: The Needy Guy

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The Needy Guy

There is absolutely nothing wrong with helping a man from time to time, but if The Needy Guy is constantly asking for stuff nonstop and not reciprocating the favors to you then this is a bad sign. The Needy Guy doesn 't do for himself, he wants you to do it instead. He is somewhat manipulative in his actions because he want women to lay out the red carpet for him. He will always act like he need you to do something for him and if you don’t his life will become worse in some type of way. Many women have motherly feelings that invoke her want to take care of somebody. If they can’t find a man, baby, or family to take care of then they will opt out for animals. This is why you will see widows who die leaving millions of dollars …show more content…

He will tell you a sob story about how life is so bad; he needs his bills paid, he has nothing to eat, etc. He wants you to feel bad for him-because he knows how emotional women are that they will give him money. After some time passes and you’ve given him everything he wants and he hasn’t returned the favors then you will start wondering about his true intentions. Eventually, you will start to notice that you’ve wasted all your time and money with this guy just so he can use you for all you’ve got. We see examples of this when women sue their ex-boyfriends. But since they gave him everything as gifts they sometimes lose the suit. The Needy Guy is not necessarily deceptive. He will tell you exactly what he needs, but it’s your choice whether you’re going to give it to him or not. If you don’t then he’ll go elsewhere; preferably to another woman. Many women are afraid of this especially if they like The Needy Guy. There’s an old saying in the pimp community, “If she likes you, she’ll pay you.” If a woman really likes a man, she’ll give him money and the things he need just to keep him around, so it works out perfectly. This is something you need to avoid …show more content…

He wants you to constantly tell him that he’s the shit, and doesn’t want to hear anything negative about himself. He wants to be called The Man of the Hour, every hour on the dot. He will even go as far to force you to call him nicknames that you don’t want, ie: Big Daddy, Big Willy, SuperMan, Master, you get the picture.
• He Makes You Do Stuff You Don’t Want To Do: He wants you to do stuff for him all the time. He also likes to be held all the time. He wants you to cook for him all the time. He’s sort of a big baby.
• Arguing: A man initiating arguments is a clear sign of him being insecure and needing attention. Secure guys who can stand on their own two feet don’t start arguments all day for absolutely minor things.
• No Friends or Family: If this man has no friends or family, or have a bad relationship with these people then this is a bad sign that he’s a needy guy for your attention. He may give you sob stories about how his family mistreated him and how he can’t trust his friends. He wants you, in a way, to be his family and friend. So therefore, he’s going to need all of your attention. The truth is that there is actually some issues going on with him personality-wise. He may actually be a bad person. There’s a reason he is running everybody

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