The Importance Of Duality In Society

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For as long as history dates back, society has always separated men and women. Whether it be for reasons related to vanity or reasons related to social dominance, it dates back as far as we can go and continues on into the 21st century. Long after many of us are gone, it will still be a never ending comparison between the two sexes. When Wollstonecraft said that women are more cramped and debased by riches and inherited honors over men she was correct. Men do not tend to care as much for vanity related issues, some women are absorbed by this and let it control their lives. Being a woman your priorities are not intact with those priorities of a man, for the two creatures do not live in the same world, yet somehow have managed to coexist amongst …show more content…

Up from the time they are born, boys and girls have social norms applied to them. Society is more harsh on women than men any day. Women are not even allowed simple human rights that a man doesn’t even have to fight for. It is as if we coexist with each other on the same planet but we are indeed from two separate worlds of experience. Girls are sexualized before they even know what sexuality is, and boys are encouraged to sexualize women as soon as they reach intrest in doing so. But when the roles are reversed, the woman is shamed for embracing her sexuality while the man is instead praised. Why does this happen? How is it that a man can sexualize a woman as much as he wishes, but once a woman sexualizes herself she is slut shamed beyond belief. Women’s rights have came a long way since the days of Wollstonecraft but we still have a big battle ahead of us. Why is it that the government... the government, is still able to control what a woman can and cannot do with her body? For what reason is it any of congressmen’s business what the women of the country that they’ll never personally know choose to do with their bodies? When men lost having complete control over woman forcing them to obedience their egos were bruised harshly for they were created on the power of being dominant over us, but when that power is taken away what is there left of

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