The Fortunate Pilgrim And The Right Thing To Do

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Holding onto traditional Italian codes of behavior and attitudes toward the family as a means to mitigate the confusion associated with assimilating into American culture is a central idea that occurs in both The Fortunate Pilgrim and The Right Thing to Do. Due to the differences in Italian and American cultures, many Italian American immigrants struggled assimilating into American society while retaining their cultural identity. For first-generation Italian American immigrants, like Octavia and Gina, the action of assimilation included letting go of their traditional Italian heritage. For Italian immigrants, like Lucia Santa and Nino, who immigrated to America, however, instead of letting go their traditional beliefs and attitudes, they hold …show more content…

Nino’s allegiance to the “old ways,” in which Angelo describes as Nino always “arguing for the old ways [, you] don’t just follow them, you hang on to them as though they’re all that’s saving you from going under” (Hendin 18) demonstrates how Nino uses traditional Italian beliefs and attitudes as a way of navigating life in a conflicting bicultural environment. Having grown up in Italy, Nino’s perspectives of the proper way of living life is different from those of first-generation Italian American immigrants, as seen by how he tells Angelo, “you were born here and you haven’t made up your mind which rules to follow” (Hendin 18). To Nino, the act of looking for rules based on “truth” and “feelings” is impossible, as there is no “foolproof way of telling which is which” (Hendin 18). In addition, Nino’s use of traditional Italian beliefs and values to navigate the conflicting bicultural environment around him is also shown through how he follows an Italian, instead of an American, code of ethics or rules. In his conversation with Vinnie, Nino criticizes the American way of doing business through contracts, saying how “[you] want to follow their rules instead of ours [, but] what are their rules?” (Hendin 19). Criticizing the American way of doing things, Nino further comments on how “contracts …show more content…

When Octavia tells Lucia Santa about her wanting to become a teacher, Lucia Santa “objects out of superstition,” emphasizing how “life was unlucky, you followed a new path at your peril” (Puzo 12). To Lucia Santa, taking risk when everything in life is already stable is the same as “[putting] yourself at the mercy of fate,” and because Octavia was [too young to understand,]” the only way to protect her against the uncertainties of life is to restrict her freedom. Similar to how Nino wants to protect Gina from the disappointment of not getting into a fancy women’s college or from getting pregnant in an uncommitted relationship with Alex, Lucia Santa wants to protect Octavia from losing what she already has obtained “to be happy” (Hendin 12). In addition to protecting Octavia from the uncertainties of life, Lucia Santa’s fatalistic perspective is also shown through their cynicism against upward mobility, as “the greater the reward, it followed, the greater the risks,” as you can “become helpless in a shattering defeat” (Puzo 138). Thus, instead of taking risks and trying to achieve richness, it is better to have a “modest safety” (Puzo 138). The idea protecting what you already have, instead of trying to strive for more, is also apparent through Lucia Santa’s refusal of letting Frank return home,

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