Ten Defending Moment Essay

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The ten defending moment of my life: is when my parents got divorced. It was a big change in my life. My parents were raised differently, they had different view of life and therefore they could not really understand each other. They god divorce when I was a five years old since that time my life totally changed not only mine but also my mom’s and sister’s life. I thought divorce is bad and my mom did everything to support us with shelter and food, I saw how she was in depression she worked every day and I felt very pity for her, I wanted to help her but I could not because I was very young. Divorce can be negative causing alienation I started to lose my self-esteem, not being able to trust anyone. Second defending moment is when my grand mom …show more content…

The first pivotal person is my mom. My mom is very thoughtful, kind, responsible, and some times quiet strict. When is comes to support like financial support, she’s responsible and thoughtful, when I need a help, she’s the first volunteer to help. My mom whole her life wanted us to be a good person and independent but when it comes to religious, she’s pretty strict. She is always on my side even I I do something wrong she just gives me advice for future action. The second pivotal person is my sister. My sister four years older then me. When I was younger, we did not really tell the secrets to each other. She used to tell all her secrets and dreams to her friends but once we became an adult, we started to tell all kind of things; we actually became close to each other. Now she’s the one who truly understands me and supports me. The third pivotal person is my little cousin (brother). I see him as my little brother because since he was young I used to care him when his parents were at work. When I was in hometown, we used to play and hang out together it was such an amazing moment on my life. The fourth person is my dad. Some people seems their dad as a first or second pivotal person, but I see him as a fourth or last one. After my parents’ god divorce, my dad god marriage after couple years and he really did not pay attention for us. His action to me was like Dismissive attachment style he exist but at the certain point not exist. Even my dad did not really care about me, I still think that he is the part of pivotal people. Finally the last pivotal person is my best friend Manija. We were friends for eleven years, we friends since childhood. I really like her because she’s very pure and kind. I used to tell her everything such as about my relationships and secrets, we were very close to each

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