Separation Individuation Theory Essay

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Margaret Mahler was a psychiatrist best known for originating the separation-individuation theory of child development. Mahler had studied the relationship between caregivers and their children in a naturalistic setting. There are four sub phases to this theory; differential, practicing, rapprochement, and lastly on the road to object constancy. This theory stresses the importance of attentiveness a mother should have during the first three years of life. Those three years of life are vital because the parents have the responsibilities of making the child feel welcomed into a loving environment. With a positive environment, the child will grow up feeling secure and confident in all stages of life. This theory also touches upon the negative …show more content…

One of the first sub phases is differentiation that occurs within the five to ten month old age block. In this stage the infant is now able to separate themselves from their mother but still rely on them heavily. The concept in this stage is separation. Separation is the process where the child emerges from a symbiotic state with the caregiver. A child in this stage will have separation anxiety and will continue to “look back” if the mother is out of site. In differentiation the child, “checking back to look at a mother is not about sharing the experience, but about safety/anxiety issues, “refueling”. It is a phase in which Mahler sees the mother not as contacting the child’s mind, but giving him a push from the next”, (Benjamin, 1990, pg.6). The presence of a mother is huge because the child needs to know that there is consistent access to their aid and wellbeing. An infant will again rely on their caregiver until object permanence has been achieved. Object permanence is where there is an understanding that objects continue to exist even when they aren’t observed. When babysitting a seven month old named Brady, I had quickly noticed that when his mother left for an appointment and was put into my care for a couple of hours, his anxiety wasn’t good. As I was holding him he kept trying to tilt his head over my shoulder to see where his mother and avid caregiver had gone. Since I was an unfamiliar person, Brady had started to cry worrying if the absence and separation of his mom would be fulfilled. The article and previously discussed concept had assisted me in better understanding differentiation. The experience I had with Brady was him making sure a reliable person would fulfill the same duties his mother had performed and at the adequate speed he was use

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