Safe Haven Stereotypes

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Safe Haven is a romance film about a young woman named Katie Feldman who decides to move to a small town in North Carolina to escape a dark and abusive past with her husband. Katie tries to keep a relatively low profile life in this town, and eventually ends up falling in love with the people and affection that fills and accompanies this town, and more specifically with a widower named Alex and his two children. Thanks to Alex and his kids, Katie learns to not only lose her constant fear of emotional and physical pain but also to love again. Throughout the movie, questions begin to rise about her past and Katie continuously finds herself struggling to maintain her secret hidden. This movie depicts and embraces certain gender roles that are …show more content…

Katie’s husband portrays the abusive, drunk husband that thinks he owns his wife. He physically and emotionally abuses Katie to the point of almost killing her. This specific role he plays, although a stereotype, is one that should be played in movies to raise awareness of these types of abusive relationships. But it should not be necessarily a male. Although more common, we have become too accustomed to the idea that only a man could abuse a women, which leads us to shift our attention away from all the women who hurt men in the world. From their youth, men have constantly been reminded that they are men, and that a characteristic of masculinity is hiding feelings and concealing their emotions. But in reality, everyone should have capacity of portraying their emotions without being considered weak or less manly. Alex’s role also illustrates a stereotype. He is the prince. The ever so common savior who sweeps the princess off her feet and serenades her with his love. Although an exaggeration, Alex represents the prince we see in Disney movies. He has been through his own list of difficult circumstances after losing his wife and the mother of his children to cancer, but even through all that he still ends up falling in love with Katie, and saving her from her own dark past. Similar to the stereotype created by Katie’s husband, Alex’s stereotype should not be confined to only men. Movies should depict a princess saving her prince, more often. Women have the capability of saving and men sometimes have the necessity of being saved. We should imagine and embrace how the world would be if gender roles were not such a powerful concept in

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