Reflective Essay About The Power Of Love

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When I was about three or four, my parents had both their church and my grandparent’s church pray over me. My mother is fond of telling this story to me because we’re a religious family, and she says that it sets up a good example of what prayer can really do. She told me that most of the congregation had laid their hands on me, one by one, to pray that God would change me into a more kind and loving child. Whenever I think back on that particular story, the song “The Power of Love” sung by Huey Louis, always runs through my mind, and reminds of the power of love my family had for me. During this time, we were living in Detroit, Michigan. As a kid, none of my siblings ever wanted to play with me or include me in any of their games. I was a …show more content…

I’m not saying that I ever saw any of the older kids actually sit down and lay down the rules to these younger kids, but they would let them into their little clique and “inadvertently” mentor them in the way it was supposed to be. I was one of those kids. And my “mentor” was the odd kid. It may have just been my imagination with me thinking I was her protégé, but that’s how my child-like mind perceived it. I could understand, even at my age, why the other children didn’t like her, but to me that’s what made her so vitally interesting. She knew she was different, and she embraced it. Even today, I’ll always remember her as one of the kindest, purest, most carefree person I will ever have the privilege of knowing. She never cared about what anyone ever thought about her. I sometimes think she was born a few decades off, because she always reminded me of a hippie with her straight long blonde hair, glasses, and her carefree spirit. The poem, Identity, by Julio Noboa Jr., reminds me of her. Particularly the part where it says, “I’d rather smell of musty, green stench than of sweet, fragrant lilac. If I could stand alone, strong and free, I’d rather be a, tall ugly weed.” Except that there was nothing ugly about her. Just that she rather be herself than what most of us considered “normal”. I feel like she …show more content…

She had this disease called spina bifida, but it was as if she wasn’t even aware of it. She never talked about it, or tried to play off on other peoples’ sympathies. I never saw her complain, even when I saw how much pain she was in. She had such a joyful spirit, that people were just drawn to her. Talking to others is not a talent that I have, but it was something I noticed Cheyenne did with ease. She could talk to anyone about anything. I like to flatter myself in thinking I’m a good listener, because people come to me to just talk about their day, and all they need is someone to listen to them. So Cheyenne and I were a good combination. A good talker and a quiet listener. I’m a quiet and reserved kind of person until someone takes the time to get to know me. I try my best to make those around me feel comfortable, because I know that’s how I would want others to make me feel. Sometimes I do wonder about who I am. For a woman of only nineteen, that’s a relatively hard question to answer. I’m still being formed and cast. But as of right now, I’m happy and strong. Quiet, but always listening. Like Pakistani female activist Malala Yousafzai once said, “I don’t cover my face, because I want to show my

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