Persuasive Essay On Family

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A family is a social foundation found in all societies. It unites people in supportive system as they care for one another. In many countries, including the U.S., families form around marriage and are seen as a legal relationship. Patterns of marriage and relationship vary around the world. There are four general marriage patterns around the world endogamy, exogamy, polygamy, and monogamy. Family support is a system involving two married individuals providing care and stability for their children. How the family support is in the household leave the impact on the children as they grow up. Present day how a family is formed has changed from traditional view now with single parents, divorced parent and gay marriage. My household has traditional …show more content…

I didn’t grow up in such home of one bread winner and one stay at home mom both my parents worked all my life, however now I find myself creating this type of family in my household. As quoted by the Coontz Article “We need to build values and social establishments that can join people’s needs for independence with their equally important rights to dependence, and we must reject older solutions that involved balancing these needs on the backs of women. We will not find our answers in nostalgia for a mythical “traditional family.” I agree with the articles statement however if a family is created with the traditional foundation it is what works for them. Shaping a family traditional or non-traditional is a personal choice, the opinion of others doesn’t matter as long as it is well fit for your family. These are the traditional values that many seek for their families and household’s. A two-parent family in which the husband provides financially while the wife manages home life and childrearing activities. The gender roles are absolute in relationship and household. Most (preferably all) members of the family attend Christian church. Children are attentive, respectful, bright, and responsible. Families live in the same town, or at least the same vicinity, for generations. Divorce is unheard of, and is considered shameful. Homosexuality, nonconformist behavior, child abuse, abortion, and domestic abuse do not exist. Unmarried couples are extremely rare, and frequently are shunned. The number of never-married men (“confirmed bachelors”) and women (“spinsters”) is extremely low. (Coontz, Stephanie, The Way We Never Were, p. 25) Many of these ideas are wonderful but to lump the majority of these idea on

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