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October 10, 2013 was the day my grandmother passed away. While this may not seem to be significant, this was a monumental moment in my life. Prior to her death, I had been grappling with depression for many years, and with her death, it only seemed to intensify. My grandmother had resided with us; she had become almost a second mother to me. Her death was the first death I had ever experienced firsthand. The experience had been traumatic for me to say the least, but it had also taught me a lot about myself, and life. In the months following her death, it seemed that all my relatives began passing away. My grandfather passed away, two of my uncles passed away, and then my aunt. Being surrounded by death forced me to accept the finite nature of life, a concept I had never quite grasped until I was actually forced to acknowledge it. Realizing that I too, could leave without a moment’s notice, I decided to take full advantage of my life. I was in a position not many people are fortunate enough to be in. I lived in a middle class family in a first world country where I am able to acquire education to better my life. I learned to appreciate that I …show more content…
By the end of my first year in high school, I was offered the position of Vice President of the Muslim Student Association. On Sundays, I began volunteering as a teacher’s assistant at a Sunday School in Piscataway. The following year, when a local Sunday school opened up, I was requested as a teacher by the principal. My position as a teacher was extremely significant as I was the only teenager teaching there at that time, my success as a teacher was the catalyst that opened opportunities for other teenagers to also teach. During the summer following my freshman year at high school, my friend and I started the YM Edison Neighbor-Net. The purpose of this organization was to create a friendly, comfortable environment for other youth to be spiritually empowered and gain
When I was twelve years old, a close friend of mine passed away. At first, I didn’t know how to process what was happening. How can someone I’ve known for the majority of my life be gone? But then it finally hit me. My friend was really gone. There would be no more days challenging
A moment in time that I hold close to myself is the funeral of my grandmother. It occurred a couple of weeks ago on the Friday of the blood drive. The funeral itself was well done and the homily offered by the priest enlightened us with hope and truth. But when the anti-climatic end of the funeral came my family members and relatives were somberly shedding tears. A sense of disapproval began creeping into my mind. I was completely shocked that I did not feel any sense of sadness or remorse. I wanted to feel the pain. I wanted to mourn, but there was no source of grief for me to mourn. My grandma had lived a great life and left her imprint on the world. After further contemplation, I realized why I felt the way I felt. My grandmother still
It was August 8th of 2013 when my dad got a call from my Aunt Theresa. She urged him to come over to her house because she had devastating news. The car ride to her house was quiet. The weather was gloomy, the sky was filled with dark cumulus clouds.When we pulled up to my Aunt’s house, the adults were organized into a small circle. My uncles were supporting my grandma, however, I thought nothing of it. My parents had told me to go inside because they had a matter to attend to. I went inside to hang out with my cousins. I saw them a couple days before, but the feeling of happiness never subsides when I see them.
I got the phone call last night. A phone call that I had not expected. It was Grandpa. His voice sounded grim.
This was the last time I spoke to her; just over a year before her death. But little did I know it was the last time I’d ever see her alive. My great grandmother Iline Sullivan was a beautiful Norwegian woman with eyes so beautiful; I swear I saw the blue color swirling about. She was a woman with a softer voice compared to others and she spoke very tenderly. That’s how I remember her beautiful, strong and a prideful woman who dealt with the loss of 2 children, and her husband.
Celery sticks served as slugger bats; olives substituted for baseballs to be smashed across the kitchen. Cousins Sonny and Guido were pitcher and catcher, and my sister Dorrie was a combination of infield and outfield. I came up to bat for the first time just as Gramps called for us to come into the living room.
My grandpa’s death was hard to overcome. It happened about 2 months ago it was the end of November that he passed away. We visited him every day that we could. The week before his death was hard because he couldn't talk and he couldn't move. It also got so bad that days before his death he could open his eyes. We spent hours and hours at quiet oaks hospice.
Imagine, for a moment, a frail nine year old slumped in an antique wooden chair, surrounded by friends and family. At the front of the poorly lit room a cherry stained coffin sits with a limp corpse. Too immature to understand, the young boy sits motionless as he is engulfed with well wishes and hugs from complete strangers. “What's the big deal,” he wonders as he sneaks a piece of pepperoni from the tray that some great aunt brought. After a few days, the coffin is buried and the granite headstone is placed.
The most vital lesson that I learned from these significant losses is that death can be a mechanism for change – one’s life nor oneself will ever be the same. Death has been permanently woven into the fabric of who I am and has changed me in ways that I never anticipated. In the earlier stages of my grief process, I feared that death would forever alter my being in solely a negative capacity. I often struggled with the notion that anything positive could come from such inconceivable losses. I never imagined that death would elicit positive transformations within myself and bring about a greater appreciation for life.
Life can be so shallow and fleeting, sometimes you need a tragedy to remind you of what is truly important in your life. Eight years ago, my cousin died after subjecting to severe asthma attack. I was so melancholy when thinking about all the life experiences that he will miss by being taken at such a young age, and what a loss this was for the whole of society to never know what merits and achievements he could have contributed, if given time. Breathe in the future, breathe out the past. I realised that the fact of his end is no longer a nightmare.
On June 5th, 2015, my uncle Greg unexpectedly passed away. When I look back to that day, I do not remember how I initially reacted to the news, but I surely remember how my two little cousins’ faces turned from utter confusion to a complete state of shock when they were told that their dad was not coming home. Like them, I could not differentiate between what was real and what was perceived to be real. I just could not wrap the concept of my uncle really passing away around my head. At that moment in time, when I thought of death, I only thought of it as a notion that only involved elderly people.
My father passed away in 1991, two weeks before Christmas. I was 25 at the time but until then I had not grown up. I was still an ignorant youth that only cared about finding the next party. My role model was now gone, forcing me to reevaluate the direction my life was heading. I needed to reexamine some of the lessons he taught me through the years.
Two years and four months ago I died. A terrible condition struck me, and I was unable to do anything about it. In a matter of less than a year, it crushed down all of my hopes and dreams. This condition was the death of my mother. Even today, when I talk about it, I burst into tears because I feel as though it was yesterday. I desperately tried to forget, and that meant living in denial about what had happened. I never wanted to speak about it whenever anyone would ask me how I felt. To lose my Mom meant losing my life. I felt I died with her. Many times I wished I had given up, but I knew it would break the promise we made years before she passed away. Therefore, I came back from the dead determined and more spirited than before.
Something that I really struggled with was the passing of my Grandmother. She was a strong woman and an inspiration to everybody in my family. I think that I struggled with it because she was a great human being, I kind of looked up to her a bit, and of course she was part of my family. I think that along with her passing, I struggled with the fact that she died when I thought that she did nothing wrong in her entire life and did not deserve to die. Mainly the fact that she was a really good person and she just died like that.
In my life time, I have experienced many deaths. I have never had anyone that was very close to me die, but I have shed tears over many deaths that I knew traumatically impacted the people that I love. The first death that influenced me was the death of my grandfather. My grandfather passed away when I was very young, so I never really got the chance to know him. My papaw Tom was my mothers dad, and she was very upset after his passing. Seeing my mom get upset caused me to be sad. The second death that influenced my life was the death of my great grandmother. My great grandmother was a very healthy women her whole life. When she was ninety three she had