Exploring Personal Identity Through Social Interactions

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There are multiple ways an individual can create their own identity. Society can judge a person merely based upon their morals, character, or appearance. When crafting an identity, one of the most important aspects of someone’s personality is their interactions with others. In the short story, The Dead, James Joyce is able to portray the contrast of social interaction between spouses. While the majority of the time Gabriel’s and Gretta’s thoughts are shown through dialogue, their private thoughts show more than what is actually said. Having the combination of dialogue and thoughts of the characters allow deeper understandings of conversations.

At the start of the story, the primary focus of dialogue between characters revolves around the …show more content…

Having the thoughts of certain characters allows the reader to see thoughts other characters are unware about. The majority of thoughts shown by the author is thoughts of Gabriel Conroy though out the night of the party. The first example is when he is gazing at his wife when she is standing on the stairwell. Looking at her, the author wrote “[Gabriel] asked himself what is a woman standing on the stairs in the shadow, listening to distant music, a symbol of. If he were a painter he would paint her in that attitude” (16). Gabriel knows how his wife is standing still on the stairwell is means something, but is clueless to what to really means. Him not noticing the symbolism to what his wife is feeling may shows his lack of emotional understand towards his loved ones. It also shows irony in Gabriel since he has so much knowledge by being and writer and professor, but doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to see his wife thinking about a man she still loves. More of Gabriel’s character is shown through his thoughts near the end of the story at the hotel with his wife. When Greta was asleep, Gabriel was pondering everything he had told her about Micheal Fuery. The author wrote “He had never felt like that himself towards any woman, but he knew that such a feeling must be love” (22). While Gabriel has affection for his wife, her talking about the love she once had with Michael makes him think that he had never experienced love anything near what is wife had described to him. Now that Gabriel has doubted what he knew about love, he also doubts if his marriage ever had love to begin with. Gabriel’s definition of love had changed since he never had that deep of an emotional connection to anyone in his lifetime and making his own views on life more depressing than that they were before. As there was a lot of information

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