Media showcase college as a huge frat party with loud music every hour, red plastic cup thrown on the ground, fraternity boy around every corner and SEX. Most adolescents' and young adults' enter college thinking they will only receive this experience and increase their sexual behaviors while being away from home. Hookups are common among the college community, typically freshman year. The young adults today views college as a place of freedom from all supervising adults; which means they will not have set curfews and rules to abide by. Hookups are sexual encounters between two individuals who are strangers, which only last for one night (Paul, McManus, and Hayes 2000:76). Hookups could be intercourse, oral sex, mutual masturbation, kissing, …show more content…
In the Rape culture, rape is common ruled out because of the hookup activities among college students. Female are common blamed for getting themselves rape when it is the rapists responsibility. When a female have multiple hookups within her college experiences she is consider as a “‘ho’ and she’s not as quality of a person” (Armstrong, Hamilton, and England 2010). This plays as a double standard and gender inequality. Female also focus on pleasing the opposite sex during the hookup to be view as sex appeal figure. With this concept, the female put the male feeling first and disregard her self-image. If the hookup ends up bad, the female could possibly become depressed or have low self-esteem because she did not achieve her goal of satisfying the …show more content…
In today's society, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are on the rise. Why hook up with someone you do not know and get something that could possibly not be cured? Ironically, some say they are just living in the moment or they were intoxicated, but that defeats the fact. They say do not drink, if you cannot control yourself. Another reason why hook ups are not ideal is because there is a chance the female could get pregnant. Who wants to get pregnant by someone that they "just met" or barely know? Certainly not me! Many college hook ups are after one or both individual are intoxicated, at a party, event, etc. If this is the case, the female probably will not have the individual contact information once she finds out she is pregnant; so the child would possibly be left without a father figure, unless they just "magically" bump into each
Conor Kelly argues in her article, “Sexism in Practice: Feminist Ethics Evaluating the Hookup Culture” that the hookup culture is sexist and disempowers women. Although, he mentions it is difficult to define “hooking up” but majority of the students will agree that it involves “some level of sexual activity without the constraints and expectations of a relationship” (Kelly 65). In other words, when two people have casual sex with no strings attached, when they both finish they both can go on with their lives without
As stated in the book, “college students have much to teach about sex” (8). That is because the values, ideologies, and worldviews of the students are representative of greater American culture. Although flawed, hookup culture on American campuses hold the possibility of accepting a culture of inclusivity, care, pleasure, and freedom while also rejecting predatory behavior, racism, classism, and abuse. Dismissing hookup culture all together is blind to the reality that young adults are going to have sex, and since sex is non-negotiable, one’s aim should be to foster open dialogue and critical thought onto a future where everyone enjoys the ability to freely explore sexuality, sex, and gender on their own
Despite the widespread notion that the hookup culture found across college campuses today is both desired and prevalent throughout Americas advanced educational institutions, Donna Freitas, a professor of religion at Boston College has found quite the opposite to be true. In fact, in her article Sex, Lies, and Hookup Culture, which addresses the distasteful but unavoidable subject, she presents extensive data from her numerous studies which attest that, surprisingly, the majority of students on campuses nationwide are in solidarity with college administrators, church leaders, and other organizations who support the eradication of the harmful culture. However, while such evidence would seem to support an expected quick destabilization of the hookup culture in today’s society, Freitas article notes that unfortunately it continues to persist strongly.
This film manages to encompass how many people perceive college to be, through alcohol and drugs, gender roles, and sexuality and relationships. Alcohol and drugs are perceived to be very prominent in the college environment, and the movie helps to aid the perception of prominence. We excel at three things here, science, social awareness and. I’m kidding, it’s a straight party school, no one goes to class here.”
“College life is an important social domain that provides lifelong experiences and memories for millions of students each year. As these results show, part of this experience involves college women experiencing forcible rape and/or alcohol-or-drug-induced rape” (Fisher, Daigle, & Cullen, 2010, p. 83).
In reaction to the media’s numerous stigmas around college hookup culture in recent years, sociologists and psychologists have begun to investigate adolescent and young adult hookups more systematically. In “Is Hooking Up Bad for Young Women?” by Elizabeth A. Armstrong, Laura Hamilton and Paula England, this issue is addressed through a reaction to previous articles from sources on opposite sides. One side of the argument over sexual activity for young women places them at risk of “low self esteem, depression, alcoholism, and eating disorders,” while the other side argues that the underlying issue is the “moral panic over casual sex.” This issue has been seen by many as a “sudden and alarming change in youth sexual culture,” but systematic research has shown that experiences of young women in college
Donna Freitas in The End of Sex gives her thoughts on how hookup culture is affecting specifically college students. Her judgment comes out of a space where she wants, “to empower them (participants in hookups) to seek the kinds of relationships they want…” (16). Though her perspective comes from a good place, her argument has points that are shaming, archaic, dismissive, and one sided. Her argument seems to be that of a pro-woman stance at times, neglecting one of the key feminism ideals of choice. Freitas uses patriarchal arguments to back up her ideas, tarnishing her perspectives that come off as woman empowering. The book, The End of Sex, neglects to be conscious of female independence
I think that if college students that engaged in the "hook-up" culture of the college and party scene used O'Neill's consenting forms, - the personal touch, actual consent, and hypothetical consent- it would not lead to unwanted sexual engagement and relations. It would provide every individual equal respect, understanding of the situation, and fairness; it would be a win-win situation for everyone. The practice of O'Neill's philosophy should be an essential part of every form of relationship. By doing so, it would provide healthy relationships among friends, intimate partners, and passionate relationships.
“I felt his hands start to move down towards my shorts as if he was trying to unbutton them or pull them off. I was still crying at this point and felt so scared that I couldn’t move” (Henneberger, 2012). These are words written by a college freshman after she had been raped, but they are true for many others as well. According to the Rape Crisis Center of Medina and Summit Counties, “every two minutes someone in the US is sexually assaulted” (Get the Facts). “Girls ages 16-19 are four times more likely than the than the general population to be victims of sexual assault” (Get the Facts). These women may be described as slut, cheap, or ready for action, rather than victim, sufferer, or survivor. Rape myths encourage these demeaning terms for women and conceal the reality of rape culture. I will describe the pervasiveness of sexual assault on college campuses as well as the systems and procedures in place to address it. Power plays a role in this issue, including the powerful men on campus such as athletes and fraternity members as well as the administrators in power who regulate the punishments and actions that are taken against the perpetrators. The influence of those in power often goes overlooked in our society because it has become so intertwined with our culture.
In "Fraternities and Collegiate Rape Culture" Ayres Boswell and Joan Z. Spade analyze the social perspective of the gendered relations in male fraternities that add to the high rate of violence against women on many college campuses. They list a host of factors that distinguish higher-risk from lower-risk atmospheres discussing the rates of rape in colleges and state how "1 out of 4 college women say they were raped or experienced an attempted rape" (217). Additionally, "1 out of 12 college men say they forced a woman to have sexual intercourse against her will" (Boswell, Spade 217). In other words Boswell and Spade indicated that the rates were high when it came down to women getting raped in colleges by men who also attended those colleges. In addition, Boswell and Spade specify in how most people are aware of rape but know very little about rape culture (Boswell, Spade 217).
Sexual assaults on college campuses has become a major phenomenon and increases on a daily throughout the United States. 1 out of 4 women on college campuses have been reported as victims in sexual assaults or attempted sexual assaults in a study by Koss, Gidyez, and Wisniewski. (Lee, Spring 2003) In majority reports of sexual assaults the victims knew their perpetrator personally and the sexual assault took place while on a date with the perpetrator. (Lee, Spring 2003) Their study also exposed that 1 in 12 college men were involved in sexual assaults but felt that their actions were not illegal. Alcohol and drug use are major components in which sexual assaults are created by. Alcohol and drug us amplified rapidly at the beginning of college
A survey from the Association of American Universities of 150,000 students found that more than one in four women experience sexual assault during their four years in college. Over the four year college period, 27.2% of female students are victims of unwanted sexual contact that ranges from touching to rape (6). Sexual assault is far too common and it is an epidemic that faces many students in college. Many students suffer from the consequences of sexual assault, which is a result of many social and cultural deficiencies, but it can be fixed through a multifaceted approach. The problem of sexual assault can be fixed through the education of the community, a positive and helpful school environment, and classes focused on prevention.
The hookup culture has become deeply ingrained in the college experience, all across the country students are fulfilling their desires while preserving their autonomy. On the surface the hookup culture doesn’t sound so bad, however, I am going to argue that the hookup culture itself stems from and promulgates problematic societal inequalities. I will develop my claim by first discussing the dominance of the hookup culture and the societal pressure placed on those who don’t want to participate or are unsure about participating in what the culture has to offer. Then, I will illustrate why the general dynamic of the heterosexual hookup is an uneven playing field even for women who actively choose to participate in the hookup culture. Finally,
There has recently been an increase in casual sex and promiscuity throughout millennials. Although millennials have fewer partners, they are having more casual hookups. Today “a large generation gap in both attitudes toward premarital sex and number of sexual partners” is greatly affecting our society (Kaplan). Promiscuity is increasing and close relationships are fading. Many are worried the world of dating will soon disappear. This promiscuity “creates a sense that hooking up has replaced traditional dating as the primary means of developing and maintaining relationships among young people, especially college students” (“Is Casual Sex on The Rise in America”). People are not marrying until later in life. They spend much of their younger years single, but not alone. They jump around from person to person, such as in Huxley’s dystopia. Although, unlike Huxley’s dystopia, relationships still exist. Many eventually find their partner and become married later on in
Paul, E. L., & Hayes, K. A. (2002). The casualties of “casual” sex: A qualitative exploration of the phenomenology of college students’ hookups. Journal of personal and Social Relationships, 19, 639-661.