Essay On Guidance And Guidance

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Guidance and discipline are an essential parts of helping children develop appropriately, both directly and indirectly they influence children’s behavior. The teacher behavior continuum is a guidance system made up of three levels that is applied to children’s mistaken behaviors. The three levels of the continuum are the relationship listening face based on the humanistic theory, confronting contracting face based on adlerian theory, and the rules and consequences face based on the social learning theory. Each theory takes a different approach to direct pervasive behavior. Relationship listening face uses looking and naming as a way to state what we see and acknowledge the struggle going on. While the Confronting contracting face uses questions …show more content…

The highest score was relationship listening face which requires a minimum use of adult power, and is focused on helping the child become aware of their actions and emotions by using unconditional positive regard. My choice I feel is greatly influenced by Previous and current teaching guidance and personal experiences with children. Everyday I am able to learn and understand that different aged children have needs that have to be met in order for them to correctly develop and promote positive behavior whether they are disabilities, emotional needs, or things as small as having a good night 's sleep impact behavior. From what I have seen some teachers lack in many areas when directing or even interacting with children, and with continuous information and practice I slowly obtain proper ways to deal with certain situations. From this practice I have instilled the value of understanding children 's inner and outer struggles and knowing they might be facing a bigger problem. I have witnessed and worked with children who have troubles either at home or out of school that has caused them to misbehave to the point where all teachers can do is ignore it. Children in these situations show more need for interactions, for conversation and physical touch like holding …show more content…

She was able to communicate with me using hand signals and gestures like pointing, she would grab my hand and lead me where she wanted me to go and answer with by nodding her head yes and no when she was asked a question. At the beginning she was very on the wall about interacting with me, I would frequently find her shadowing me while I played with other children she would watch as if she wanted to join but was to shy to do so. The more and more I came to observe the more she would warm up to me she now wanted to play with me but still no speaking. I was able to understand that because of her shyness and distance from other children her social skills were going to develop in a slow pace and with persistent practice. Different children have different needs and not all will develop accordingly to the age milestones some might be reached before anticipated and some might be delayed. With continuous work I dedicated sufficient amount of time to this little girl that she came to feel secure around me to the point where she would look to me to console her. She was now being more physically interactive with me like hugging me when she would cry and holding my hand. I had noticed that many of the times

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