Essay On Chivalry

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Chivalry can simply be defined as an act of courtesy towards people. (“Don’t Just Talk Chivalry. Live it” 3) It is something that is not seen as much today, but is still seen here and there. I have witnessed a few acts of chivalry and times where it should have been present but wasn’t. An act of chivalry can simply be paying attention to someone when they speak. I see it so often when a person is talking to someone and that other person is ignoring them. About a month ago, a few of my friends went with me on a horseback ride. One of these friends brought a man that she had been interested in, using this trail as a type of first date. The entire time, the man was on his phone paying very little attention to her. She would try to talk to him …show more content…

We had stopped at McDonalds for lunch and on our way inside, I held the first door for my mother and a couple that were following us inside. The man walked right in and politely thanked me for holding the door, while the women just walked in without saying a word. My mother had gone on to hold the second door and again, the man walked right in, politely thanking her for holding the door. He continued inside to order his meal, but the women stopped before walking in and looked at my mother with a confused look on her face. She looked my mother right in the eyes and asked her if she was really holding the door open for her. My mother, wondering if she was joking or not, replied with a simple yes and a smile on her face. The woman got very angry and said she was not going to go walk inside if she was holding the door. With a smile still on her face, she played along with what she thought was a joke. She said that she was just going to stand there holding the door for her until she went inside. Completely angered, the woman finally walked inside insulting my mother for holding the door. That was the moment we understood that the woman was not joking. I feel that chivalry was missing in this experience when the man walked through, instead of offering to hold the door. Although it was polite of him to say thank you, he was not …show more content…

I had just gotten off a plane to visit my grandmother in Florida and an elderly woman had been a passenger on the same plane. In this specific airport, there are small subway trains that take the passengers to the baggage area. All seats had been filled by the time this woman made it to the subway train. She looked around and found that no seats were available, but a young man behind her stood up and offered his seat to her. She gave the young man a big smile and thanked him for such a nice act of kindness. The fact that he was willing to stand so this woman could sit down was very polite and not only made the woman happy, but I had a smile on my face,

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