Eros Love In The Great Gatsby

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When Eros comes to mind, one imagines a couple falling in love and growing old together; one could even imagine a man looking at a woman with lust. While Eros is a love between a man and a woman, it involves much more than lust and the event of falling "in love". Gatsby, a character in "The Great Gatsby", forms a love that is equal to Eros. He does this through desiring only one woman and by unfortunately making Eros a god in his life.
"The Great Gatsby" is a novel by F. Scott Fitzgerald centered on a man 's life in the 1920 's. Although the narrator, Nick Carraway, is a character in the novel, his story revolves around a mysterious man named Jay Gatsby. Gatsby befriends Nick Carraway, in order to reconnect with his former love, Daisy, who happens to be Nick 's cousin. Gatsby is mysterious for the reason that he throws large parties at his elegant mansion and is never seen at the …show more content…

It is plausible that Eros became a god to Gatsby because he did not know what he loved. Lewis comments that loves often go amiss because a person in the relationship does not understand that the love one has for a person does not belong to us, but to God (Lewis 139). Gatsby could not accept the fact that Daisy was Tom’s to love; much less could he accept the fact that she was no one but God’s to truly love. However, if Gatsby would have let Eros be redeemed, he could have found Daisy in God, for where we find God, we also find our natural loves (Lewis 139). In order for charity to redeem Eros, the person, must execute virtues such as forgiveness. These virtues allow God to turn Eros into something greater, which is charity (Lewis 136). Although Gatsby was trying his best to give everything that he could to Daisy, he was not able to offer her forgiveness for marrying Tom while he was away. This is what prevented Gatsby and Daisy’s love from being

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