Deborah Tannen's Essays: Direct Or Direct

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If there is anything I have learned after joining the military, it would have to be the ability to pick up on my superior’s indirect cues. However, I did find it quite interesting reading that subordinates generally are more indirect with their superiors, such as in the case of the pilots and co-pilots presented within Deborah Tannen’s writing. For me at least, being quite direct without losing politeness or respect for the individual being spoken to seems to be quick and efficient, rather than having to drag out conversation longer than need be. While I don’t mean to sound boring, I do feel that being direct can paint clearer pictures or present situations in a brighter light for clarified understanding. Though it is true that my superiors

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