Catastrophes And Miracles By Mary Williams

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Cancer, the dreaded six letter word that will affect almost everyone at some point in their life; whether cancer is theirs or a loved one’s. What happens when the cancer the doctors said was gone comes back only a year later and this time worse than before? For Mary Williams, this just so happened to be her case. Her malignant melanoma is back and this time an unspoken ‘terminal’ is present in the diagnosis. As a mother of two young girls, eight and eleven years old, Williams is given no choice but to fight. It does help that her team of doctors are from New York’s elite cancer treatment facility Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center which is known to be working on a new drug on melanoma patients. So when she is offered to be in a once-in-a-lifetime …show more content…

The memoir focuses on her learning to deal with cancer, the struggles of having a loved one with cancer, and the healing power of human connection. Anyone with cancer knows that the first step to having cancer is getting through the first initial feeling of being out of control, even though they are. Mary states, “Imagine that someone woke you up in the middle of the night, put a pillowcase over your head, threw you into the trunk of a car, and then dumped you in a foreign country with a parting message ‘This is where you live now.’ You don’t speak the language. You don’t know the terrain. Your new job, for whatever you may have left of your sorry life, is to figure out. This is what the period immediately following finding out you have cancer is like” (31). Mary continues on to talk about how Midtown East, Manhattan, a place she has never really been, will now become her home. Between doctor visits she will learn the area, she will learn the language that the doctors speak, even though she has no …show more content…

When speaking to her friend Debbie, Mary says “When it’s your own cancer, it’s tough because you’re feel like you have no control over what’s happening to you. Seeing it with you and with Dad, I get it now that when it’s someone you love, it’s different kind of tough. Because then you really have no control” (page 125). Toward the end of the book, she uses this topic again when talking about Debbie’s scans, because they are not looking good. She talks about how it is not fair and how she wishes that Debbie could use the same miracle drug she was given. One of the other struggles Mary talks about is the unknown and how she has no idea when it will be her last day or the one she loves last day. She writes “Our families walk to the cars, and we promise to see each other again as soon as possible. I wonder if we will, though. See each other again, I mean cancer has a way of changing your relationship with the future and your plans for it” (page 193). Cancer is an uncontrollable illness that will do whatever it wants to, for people as sick as Mary and Debbie, it could all change in a flash. All of a sudden they are dying and there is nothing that can be done. Thankfully they do see each

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