Breaking A Social Norm

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A social norm is a behavior that society deems acceptable or normal. These can simplify our lives by providing us with scripts and costumes. Not all social norms are based on logic. For example, I never understood why certain swearing was bad. Why is it more acceptable to say crap than shit if they have the same meaning? Recently, I broke the social norm of eating food with the designated cutlery. I did this once in public with a group of friends and once in private with one friend. While at lunch with a group of three friends in the cafeteria I ate soup and salad, but used a spoon for both. Later, a different friend and I got a pizza and I ate it with a spoon. After each incident, I pretended to text, but was recording their reactions. I’m

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