I. Introduction
Listening to love songs all day to crying all night, bad advice from your friends c’mon who hasn’t been there?
Break-Ups can either make you or break you. There are countless effects to break-ups ranging from obsession, multiple sex partners, even abuse.
II. Body
A. Obsession because being in a relationship or in love stimulates the part of the brain associated with cravings for food or even drugs. It’s a feeling of withdrawal after a break-up.
After a break-up you can’t stop thinking about your ex and all the good times, even what you could have done to make things better.
Obsession can go as far as seeking any kind of reconnection from an ex, rather it be social media, family members, mutual friends, or the worst drunk
In the novel Paper Towns by John green, there are many themes or ideas that contribute to the storyline and effect the storyline. One of these is obsession, which is shown throughout the story.
It has been long debated whether genetics or the environment in which one is raised impacts human psychological development the most. In Never Let Me Go, Kazuo Ishiguro shows that nurture cannot overcome one’s hereditary inclinations. Ishiguro exploits a world where human nature powerfully contradicts nurturing. He shows us that people, no matter how they were created or how they were raised, desire to be loved and accepted and need to know where they came from and what their future possibilities are.
In many relationship, break ups happen for the most part and there are different ways a man and a women may interpret it. To emphasize, many women usually show and express their emotions which may consist of yelling, arguing, or maybe just crying after a breakup. It seems women are more sensitive to issues that involve breakups, which is why this issue might impact them more than the issue might impact men. On the other hand men react very differently. To add, men usually don't express their feeling unlike women, and usually keep to themselves when it comes to relationships. Men usually don't show that they've been hurt or have been through a breakup, they usually feel no
Women often tend to have the mindset that we can change a man, make a man love us, and futher more not cheat. Im here to emphasize just how unture this statement is and how to heal. In order to get over a bad breakup we must first leave the wound uncovered.
The interpretation of infatuation, attraction, need, good sex and attachment as love is the main cause of love trap. Assumptions such as "love is all one requires”, “love conquers all" and if it feels so good it must be love, are not to be relied on as they can be easily confused with infatuation only to be realized when the initial infatuation is gone, and when it’s too late to save the relationship or leading the spouses in a miserable life of trying to get back lost love.
Obsessions are the unpleasant thoughts or impulses that cause the person with the disorder to have lots of anxiety and edginess. The thoughts may include things such as perfect order of things in a house, perfect hygiene, or the fear that they are going to hurt someone. Obsessions can be violent or sexual.
While this may sign may be difficult to reconcile in the context of fears of intimacy, it makes perfect sense.Relationship addicts by definition cling to the newness of a given romance during the honeymoon period. Once that period ends however, they often move on to someone new to replicate the feelings and emotions experienced during the previous relationship. It is the “high” of the honeymoon that causes them to jump from one dating experience or relationship experience to another.” I have met so many people in my life that are like this. They can have three relationships in a span of six months and I always thought it was absolutely ridiculous. Doing this research paper has helped me to figure out why these friends of mine do these certain
Almost everyone will have to break up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend at some point in his or her life. Breaking up is honestly a hard thing to do no matter what the situation. At some point in time, you found something special in this person that you are now going to have to get out of your life. Now these good times and special features must be bypassed so you can do what's best for you. An easy way to remember the tools you need is to remember the Wizard of Oz, because all you need is courage, a heart and a brain.
I’ve been through two breakups in my life. I broke up with a teenage boy who was manically possessed to masturbate at the most inopportune times. My world was not shaken to its core during that break up. But, when my beloved video store, Superior Video, broke up with me, I knew that I would never be the same. I would never love another video store in the same way ever again.
...iction” because it usually contributes to overall fitness rather than other addictions such as drinking, drug use, gambling, and smoking. But as is true with any addiction, obsessive behavior typically causes the addict to withdraw from relationships or damage relationships.
Do you believe in happy endings? Once in a person’s lifetime, everyone finds this one perfect person whom they fall hopelessly in love with and live happily ever after. That is a mere fallacy, in the real world, this simply does not happen. Yes, people do have common interests and therefore develop romantic involvement, but it is basic common sense that these relationships have a life span and simply cannot last. There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life in the long-term no matter how much you want them to. Sometimes people come into your life to shake you up, tear apart your ego, flip your perspective, show your obstacles, break your heart and mind open. The cause of a breakup can be due to various reasons such as cheating, falling out of love, quarrelling or the lack of communication.
There are different types of pain, including emotional pain and of course physical pain. Anyone who has ever experienced a break up has felt true sorrow. Unlike most break ups my story isn’t that heartbreaking. Nonetheless, I will never forget the feeling of someone I once loved telling me they didn’t feel the same way anymore. My heart felt like it was shattered, I lost my appetite, and my emotions were crazy. But no one explains how it feels after a break up better than Saddi “The rose and the thorn and sorrow and gladness are linked together.” (Brain quote blog) Certainly, he didn’t mean for this to be a teenage girl’s inspirational break-up quote, but it helped and that is what truly mattered. If we dissected the quote the rose would be the relationship, the thorn is arguments, and sorrow is the official break-up. Now that just leaves one last part of the quote, which is gladness. After, the tears and anger and hardship it will lead us to gladness. We are glad that we had those experiences and we are glad that we moved on. Whenever, I think about that break-up, I feel some pain, but mostly gladness that I at least had the opportunity to feel love and to know the feeling of someone loving me back. The break-up made me stronger, because I have learned to accept that some things are just out of my
It was not a typical heartbreak one who have with a breakup. No one had cheated, lied, or simply decide they did not want to be in a relationship anymore. I would never run into him in town, and have that awkward silence. I would never have to be jealous of seeing him with another girl. I would not have to wonder what I did wrong, or why I was not good enough. I wish wholeheartedly that it was just a break up and all of the typical things you go through in a break up would happen, because that would mean he was still here, and alive. That experience changed my life. I have always loved love, but I have grown an even greater appreciation for love and what love means. I now know to never take any one, or any day for
One can have obsession towards anything in their life. Some towards bags, clothes, watches; others would be towards books and others may be towards things as nonsense as seashells or even sand. We might encounter upon many types of obsession in our life and sometimes, we may have the obsession ourselves! Sometimes, the obsession becomes viral that all people in the society have it! Sometimes also, the obsession is quite rare that the society might be shocked to hear that such obsession even existed. Some people might wander; what was the thing that triggered others to have that kind of obsession while the people who have that obsession might also wandered too; why those person does not have that obsession?
Indeed, going through a painful break-up is not as easy as it may sound. The feeling of being dumped, betrayed and brokenhearted could shut down your emotions. It may even magnify your fears and cause you to swear not falling in love again. Worst is, it will make you generalize and label person of the opposite gender to be all worthless your time and attention. Are you that person who is still stuck with the remnants of the past? Do you see yourself a captive who is constantly reminded of the memories you once have shared? Do you find yourself...