Ideal American Family Essay

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The world as we know it has always been based on Gods rule that "man is made for woman not man for man or woman for woman. That rule has taught us that the ideal American family consists of a husband, wife and children, with the husband being the sole provider and the wife cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children. As time progressed we see history has been altered.
The ideal American family has become diminished. In the 21st century only 46% of children in the United States live in that ideal American family. Meanwhile you have 15% of children living with a parent that has been remarried at least once. It may seem like 15% is a small number, but in actuality it is 8, 76, 00 divorces a year that is occurring.
Then you have an equal 34% of children living with a single parent or same sex parents, due to society illnesses and homosexuality rights. Poverty, crime and lack of religion causes adults to lash out, leaving there partner to take care of their child on their own, and with thirty seven states allowing homosexuals to be married then the next thing for them to do is to want to adopt and start a family. …show more content…

In most of these cases, they are living with a guardian. An anomaly that has become much more widespread.
It is sad that since a family do not have a working father and a stay at home mother and children then the family is not traditional it is nuclear. I disagree with that. The day of age of where sitcoms like "Leave It to Beaver" and "Good Times" were life goals is gone. It is time to embrace independence and do what is right for

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