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Do you think spanking a child is child abuse? Well, I do. Let’s say your 7 year old son did something wrong. How about he made a kid cry at school. Instead of spanking him for punishment, how about you sit him down and explain what he did was wrong. I believe he will benefit more from being told that what he did was wrong than to be spanked. With some kid’s childhoods, it starts out as spanking, then leads to other things that are much worse. It could turn into beating, slapping, and punching. This commonly happens and that child will grow up with violent actions such as beating other kids like their parent has done to him. This also can lead to suicide. Teenage suicide is common with kids that have been physically abused. Also, if you spank and/or beat your child, s/he will most likely grow up to resent you. If you don’t spank your child and don’t be an extremely strict parent, I believe it will be a more beneficial childhood. Sure, your child is not going to behave perfectly every day, but he or she will learn from mistakes. In 2006, the third most leading causes of death of people the ages of 15-19 was suicide. This bothers me. I myself have felt suicidal before. My father died when I was 10, my father and I were very close. When he passed away, I felt very lonely. I was down in the dumps for a couple years but then I finally got out of it. Time can heal anything. Losing a parent can absolutely destroy a child. If that child has a bad family except for the mom, and that mom dies and the child is left with that bad family, suicide chances increases. Childhood suicide is more common with poorer families. Families that live in bad neighborhoods were there is a lot of crime and bullying. Bullying is a huge factor in suicide. Bully...

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...r kid is old fashioned. They used to do it in school. If you got in trouble, you were sent to the principal’s office and spanked with a paddle. There is a reason why they don’t have that anymore, that reason is the same reason I am writing this essay, its cruel and there are so many other ways to discipline your child. When I have kids one day, I will never spank them. Spanking is old fashioned and will hopefully be extinct very soon. Spanking your child will make that child scared of you and scared to do anything because he or she will be afraid to do anything and I’m sure that was not the intended outcome that the parents wanted to happen. So, what I am trying to say is, don’t spank your kid, sit him down, explain the situation and he or she will learn from mistakes and with benefit more from the conversation that just being spanked and sent to his or her room.

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