The Bachelor: Illusion or Last Shot at Love?

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Why the Bachelor is Our Last Chance at Love One house, twenty-six swoon-worthy men, one eternal love-seeking woman, and an infinite amount of opportunity. However, we have narrowed it down to just two lucky men; palms sweating as they attend the final rose ceremony to receive their fate. Will the athletic, rugged, yet sweet Shawn receive the rose? Or will the homegrown, charming and handsome all-American Nick be the one to take a knee and sweep Kaitlyn off her feet? Forget the fact that twenty-five of thirty Bachelor couples have ended in separation; you and me both know the love here in season eleven is a life-long one; this one is real. Also, you’ll probably want to forget the fact that Kaitlyn has been going on dates with twenty-five other …show more content…

They may dispute Kaitlyn and Shawn’s love due to that these people have only known each other for two months, have spent a limited amount of alone time together, and contestants have previously admitted to joining for the allure of fame alone; and hey, maybe they’re right, but probably not. It is obvious to us viewers through the way Shawn looks at Kaitlyn and through everything he is willing to do to make her happy, that he is here for the right reasons. You don’t come across a love this real and unadulterated in the natural world anymore. Meeting someone in public, at a bar, in school- that’s just overrated nowadays, and after watching the terrifying outcomes of most episodes of Catfish, online dating is definitely no longer an option. It appears to me that The Bachelor/Bachelorette series may be our last chance at true love. Am I saying I’m going to go sign up for the show myself? No. Mostly due to the fact that you have to get poked and prodded, checked for STD’s, are barely allowed to eat, have to fill out an ungodly amounts of forms and questionnaires, and even then are probably not even considered if you’re not a five foot eight, 110 lb. Caucasian female with the genetic make-up of a porcelain doll. All of which is definitely necessary, just not something I have the energy for. However, if you are up for it, it’s absolutely worth it in the long run knowing that your soul mate is bound to be somewhere in that crowd of twenty-five fame chasing, oh- and love-seeking,

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