Who Is The Catcher In The Rye Ambivalent To Holden

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In a State of Uncertainty: Ambivalence and Future Relationships in the Catcher in the Rye
Loss is a natural part of life that impacts individuals in differing ways. Coping with the loss of a loved one is one of the hardest challenges humans face. Parental support in times of extreme grief is essential in maintaining emotional stability. J.D. Salinger discusses on this topic deeply in his novel, The Catcher in the Rye, Salinger uses the development of Holden and Allie's relationship and the complex characterization of the protagonist, Holden, to prove that the loss of a loved one along with the absence of guidance can lead one to be ambivalent to form future meaningful relationships. Holden's struggle to cope with the loss of his brother Allie …show more content…

Holden is an outsider, he doesn’t have many friends at school and spends a lot of time alone. Holden describes one of his last days at Pencey, “the Saturday of the football game. […] I remember around three o'clock that afternoon I was standing way the hell up on top of Thomsen Hill. […] You could see the whole field from there […] You could hear them all yelling” (Salinger 4-5). Holden does not want to go and face the students in the stand, instead he chooses to isolate himself. Holden’s parents don’t view him as a priority, they focus instead on sending him to various boarding schools. Holden is ambivalent to create relationships with his peers because he is constantly changing schools. The loss of his brother generates a fear of losing someone Holden potential grows close to. Literary critic, Stuart Kallen, highlights the importance of this scene to Holden’s overall characterization. He describes this as Holden’s “first of many casual references to suicide. This scene sets the stage for the entire novel in which the alienated Holden Caulfield acts as an outside observer and commentators on many basic American traditions considered very important by others” (Kallen 62). Holden’s purposeful isolation reflects the power of his lingering grief on his social life. He has very few meaningful relationships worthy enough to make him apart of the school. Holden's relationship specifically with his parents is very weak and distant. After failing a majority of his classes, the principle sent a letter home, “[He] didn’t want to go home or anything till they got it and thoroughly digested it and all. [He] didn’t want to be around when they first got it. [His] mother gets very hysterical. She’s not too bad after she gets something thoroughly digested, through” (Salinger 58). Holden’s mother is still grieving the loss of her son and struggles emotionally on a day to day basis. Holden fears disappointment from his parents, he

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