Betrayal is defined as being disloyal and breaking one’s trust. The sources used for evidence are
“What Made This Man betray His Country?” By David Hoffman, The Tragedy of Julius Caesar by William Shakespeare, “Good Lovers Lie” by Clancy Martin, and “The Devastating Power of Lies in a Relationship” by Donald Miller. These sources support how one can commit betrayal and the circumstances in which it is acceptable. Betrayal of others, betrayal of country, and betrayal of self are acceptable when something good can come from it.
Betrayal of a Friend
It is acceptable to betray a friend when they are a bad influence to one’s morals. Friendship can be dangerous. In the play, The Tragedy of Julius Caesar by William Shakespeare Brutus tells Cassius
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that “It must be by his death; and for my part, I know no personal cause to spurn at him, but for the general. He would be crowned” (Shakespeare, 2015, p.571). This quotation illustrates how Brutus believes that the death of Caesar is necessary for the good of Rome. This shows how Brutus’ and Caesar’s friendship became dangerous when Brutus and Cassius were planning an assassination to kill Caesar. Brutus made it acceptable to betray a friend because Brutus believed that Rome should be a Republic and he feared that he would have to go against his morals to support Caesar becoming king. Although a friend can be a bad influence, one should be loyal to them instead of betraying them. One must never break a friend’s trust or loyalty. In the play, The Tragedy of Julius Caesar by William Shakespeare Antony tells the crowds after Caesar’s death that “If Brutus, as you know, was Caesar’s angel. Judge, O you gods, how dearly Caesar loved him! This was the most unkindest cut of all” (Shakespeare, 2015, p.612). This quotation explains how much Caesar loved and trusted Brutus but in the end Brutus’ stab was the worst of all the traitors. This shows how a friend should never break a friend’s trust like what Brutus did. If a friend is a bad influence, one should never betray a them because one should be loyal instead of breaking their trust. While being loyal to a friend is best for maintaining a friendship, one might be going against their morals rather than standing up for what they believe in. Therefore, there would be no trust to break if there wasn’t any to begin with. Betrayal of Country It is acceptable to betray one’s country when it is for the safety of others.
One must always put others before one’s self. In the article “What Made This Man Betray His Country” Hoffman states how Tolkachev “greatest weapon against the Soviet Union was not some dissident pamphlets but right in his desk drawer: the blueprints and reports that were the most closely held secrets of Soviet military research. He could seriously injure the system through betrayal, turning these vital plans over to the “main adversary”: the United States” (Hoffman, 2015). This illustrates how Tolkachev didn’t have any weapons against the Soviet Union but blueprints to give to the United States. This shows how although Tolkachev will be executed because of treason, he betrayed his country so that others would be safe. It is acceptable to betray one’s country so that others may be safe even if it results in …show more content…
self-sacrifice. However, one must protect one’s self first before providing safety to others. One’s safety is more important than bravery. In the article “What Made This Man Betray His Country” Tolkachev explains how “‘Because of the slightest suspicion, I will be totally isolated or liquidated for safety’” (Hoffman, 2015). This illustrates how if he got caught spying on his country, he would be committed for treason. This shows how he had to protect himself first from the Soviet Union rather than risking it for bravery. Therefore, it is more important to protect one’s self first before protecting others. However, Betrayal of Self It is acceptable to betray oneself when it is to protect others from the truth.
Love can make one do outrageous things. In the article “Good Lovers Lie” Martin states how “The people who find themselves most betrayed by the lies of lovers are those who have the most unrealistic expectations about truthfulness” (Martin, 2015). This quotation illustrates how people betray themselves the most when they start to believe the lies of their lover. When one is in love, it makes one do outrageous things by believing in unrealistic truths. It is acceptable to betray oneself so that others are protected from the truth even though it may go against one’s morals. Being in love makes one do what is necessary to protect their significant other even if it means lying to
them. Others may say that knowing the truth is more important even though it can have a negative effect. Secrets and lies destroy relationships. In the article “The Devastating Power of Lies in a Relationship” had experienced how lying in a relationship only made things worse and he states that “Telling the truth may mean you don’t get to be in control anymore or that people won’t like you as much. That’s fine. At least they are interacting with the real you. The deep connections you’ll make from telling the truth are worth it” (Miller, n.d). This quotation illustrates how one must always tell the truth even though it can make people dislike you. In a relationship, one should always tell the truth because the secrets and lies can only make things worse. Although knowing the truth and telling the truth can have a negative effect, it is better not to betray one’s self for love. However, sometimes lies don’t always destroy relationships. It may be necessary to have little lies to maintain a stronger relationship. Love can make one do outrageous things like lie so that the relationship can become more stable. Betrayal of others, betrayal of country, and betrayal of self are acceptable when something good can come from it. The claim that supported when it was acceptable to betray a friend is “friendship can be dangerous”. The claim that supported when it was acceptable to betray one’s country was “one must always put others before one’s self”. The claim that supported when it was acceptable to betray one’s self was “love can make one do outrageous things”. The effects of betrayal are mostly negative and can sometimes cause physiological damage. Committing betrayal can be worth it if it is for their own good.
The way people act toward each other can cause betrayal to play a huge role in their actions toward one another, which is the first way in which betrayal is portrayed. For example, before they were born, “The twin argued inside of their mother’s stomach and fought about their birth.The right-handed twin wanted to be born the normal way, as most children are born, but the left-handed twin said no and said he saw light in another direction(Iroquois 41),” so the right-handed twin was born naturally while the left-handed twin ended up not being able to go the direction he saw light in was born through his mother’s armpit,
People can be betrayed in a variety of ways for different reasons, by anyone in their lives. A close family member or a best friend could betray one. They may go behind one’s back in order for more personal gain, but sometimes they commit betrayal in the interest of one’s benefit. A not so close friend could betray one’s trust by telling a secret or situation that was told or seen in confidence that was broken for a juicy story or just slipped unnoticed. Some people betray their friends or enemies in order to make them look bad; such as spreading a rumor about said person.
Another example of the betrayal of a friend occurs not too long after. While Vladek and his family are hiding in the attic bunker in the ghetto, they are forced to go out in search of food at night. One night while they are scavenging they find a stranger who wanders into their house. The stranger tells them that he has a wife and a baby that he needs to find food for and he only wandered into the house to rest for a moment. The refugees take pity on him and allow him to stay with them for a short while, despite their gut feeling...
The Odyssey by Homer is a very good example of fidelity and infidelity. The odyssey is a tail of love, courage, and hope. It focuses on "a man of twists and turns." Odysseus is a man whom gets lost at sea because of Poseidon, the god of the sea, he tries to get back to his wife and son in Ithaca. But he is put through so much trouble to get there.
In Cicero 's argument, he believes that because your friend had the audacity to ask a good friend a favor that is wicked, makes the person who asked an unvirtuous man. If a friend were to accept the favor, the whole virtue of the friendship would be questions, but if a friend denies another friend a favor he would be breaking the laws of friendship, “we must not ask wrongful things, nor do them, if we are asked to. For if a man should declare that he has done a thing of this kind for a friend’s sake, the excuse in ordinary affairs, and especially so if the act was treasonable” (Cicero, 95). Besides virtue, which plays a large role in his argument, a minor quality is the trust within the relationship. I discovered that it is not only about asking the proper questions and favors, but always have faith in your friend that they will see the good in your acts.
The bond of love is one which men, the wretched creatures they are, break when it is to their advantage to do so; ?? fear is held together by a dread of punishment which will never abandon you?(649). Machiavelli suggests that the key to being a good ? prince,? is deception. ? It is necessary to know how to disguise this nature well and to be a great hypocrite and a liar: and men are so simple-minded and so controlled by their present necessities that one who deceives will always find another who will allow himself to be deceived?
In the same way that “Romeo and Juliet” represent love as incurring hurtful emotional cost; love often exposes us to hurt and trouble.
According to dictionary.com betrayal means "an act of deliberate disloyalty,”. Betrayal is something that is very prevalent throughout the novel The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini which is a story about the betrayal that a young boy named Amir does to his friend Hassan. Amir shows that he is a betrayer to Hassan when he belittles, plots, refuses to acknowledge their friendship, and walks away from Hassan. With each betrayal listed they progressively get worse and worse as Amir continues to show how little he really cares for Hassan.
In the course of man's life he will have to make many decisions, and some will decide his future. Power, loyalty, and trust, are essential, yet obtaining them is only the beginning, managing them is a much harder task. For one to succeed he must realize how much power is beneficial and how much is dangerous. Loyalty helps one's cause immensely, yet one must not take the loyalty of his followers to the extreme. Trust is one of the most important assets a man can have, he must be careful, and not take it for granted. Man must always be prepared for these times when a decision must be made, because, as seen in Shakespeare's "Julius Caesar", one irrational decision can be man's last.
Many times people are tested every day and struggle with the moral duty with what is right and what is wrong. For example Many Americans are married with children and know that entering the sanctity of marriage, understanding that no man or woman shall come between them. However, many marriages end on the bases of adultery between one or the other. Knowing and understanding as young adults that committing adultery is wrong. Many Americans still continue to cheat on their spouse. Knowing the moral value of marriage, but still risk breaking the value of marriage. During this moral dilemma of adultery, many wrong doings have been violated, such as dishonesty that comes with adultery and the moral commitment that was taken for granted. Other ethic principles are violated when one or the other commits adultery. Trust issues will arise if a person has been caught committing destructive ethical act. Violation from using household money to commit adultery for outings, hotel stay, buying gifts. Along with other financial necessity to commit adultery. Quality time spent away from family while committing adultery is also an ethical violation in the sanctity of marriage. Even abuse of alcohol could be a factor in
"Love is whatever you can still betray. Betrayal can only happen if you love." (John LeCarre) In William Shakespeare's The Tragedy of King Lear, characters are betrayed by the closest people to them. The parents betray their children, mostly unintentionally. The children deceive their parents because of their greed and power hunger. Their parents were eventually forgiven, but the greedy children were not. Parents and their children betray one and other, and are only able to do so because they are family, however, the children betray for greed while the parents betray through the credulity caused by their children's greed.
The worst part about betrayal is that most people never even find out that they have been betrayed. A man could go on vacation, cheat on his wife, return home, and she would never find out. Cheaters and other traitors often tend to have the mindset of “I never lied, you just didn’t ask.” Another popular phrase is “It’s not illegal if you don’t get
Thesis: Betrayal is a form of deception and disloyalty that breaks people’s trust, creates conflicts, jeopardizes relationships, impacts people in a negative manner and leads people to their demise.
Friendship is a wonderful part of life, but unfortunately, it can be used to deceive. It is easy to manipulate, but true friendship cannot be defeated, even after death. This element could well be the very thing that sealed the fate of Julius Caesar. Brutus, Cassius, and all the other conspirators knew that they could use friendship to their advantage and Caesar's disadvantage. The conspirators used friendship as a cover to blind Caesar from the truth, just as a hunter uses camouflage to keep the animals from seeing what he is up to.
supported by their words, by being honest. In Othello, Shakespeare exhibits how dishonesty can be used as a form of manipulation on honest people, but also leads to self-destruction on the person using it.